my bfs ex which he has a child with is so ridiculous.. we have been together going on six years and she is just now…

I've been dealing with bbymma drama for the past 8 yrs! It's so sad.

yea big time @msjess

Tell her to grow up and face reality or tell him to tell her n u shouldn't b mad at if anybody be me meaning him talking to her cuz i decided to settle n make a baby with her ...we obviously not together n wont b so what do u expect of men to do that wants families n have a wife not all relationships work n ours didn't apparently and i come to love her a lot and plus u have a baby with another guy n i didn't treat u any diff so don't disrespect my girl

@sophiasmommy2016, seriously it's non sence.

shes probably mad at that either way she needs to cut that crap off and grow up

@sophiasmommy2016, we use to talk now she just flipped. and she refuses to talk to me only to my bf. @stacy931 I agree maybe because she never thought he would actually settle down and have another child and because the fact we are having a boy.

awww poor baby and the worst part is that the children r the ones that suffer through this. Specially when u try to stop them from feeling or doing something.

But she has to get over it n cry wolf to someone else

Its totally jealously hun yea she had baby by someone else but it didn't bother him ig so she thought it was ok n nev thought of him having baby with someone else but her no matter the situation

I would just talk to her see why she's acting like that makes no since at all

@sophiasmommy2016, you would think she would be more mature she's about 6 years older than me and she has another child with someone else. I have never put this women down and I have always told my bfs Daughter that she needs to respect her mom and when she asks me for anything I would always tell her to talk to her mom first.

she needs to grow up

she probably jealous of u cause ur having a baby and she's not with him I would sit down and tall to her mom and just tell her ur not gonna take her place as a mom it's OK to have two mommies

@happyliz,

I have been in my bfs daughters life since she was 1 she will be 7 this may. it's sad because the lil girl shouldn't have to stop feeling a certain way because her mom tells her to. she use to tell people I was her mom now she tells people I'm nothing to her because her dad and I aren't married. it breaks my heart. but I know it's not her fault.

she doesn't want me to have a bond or close relationship with her daughter. my bfs Daughter and I have always been close and she has even called me mom but her mom put a stop to it this past year. it's like she's brain washing her against me.

that sucks. what kind of problems? (if I may ask) my husband has a child with another girl and thankfully she doesn't even talk to him.