warning; small rant.
I don't know if it's just me, but I feel like it's a kind thing to get everyone that attends your baby shower a small thank you gift and/or card. nothing huge. just something to show your appreciation and thanks that they came for you and your little one. I also feel like it's important for different people to win games, and not the same person every time! so rude. I want my baby shower to be one that people feel comfortable at, and one that they just all around had a good time at. Some women don't show enough appreciation towards people literally GIVING them gifts, they almost exspect it because they're having a child.
Right because they didn't have to bring their asses at all
My point exactly. even if you make them a card yourself, it's still a little something to make them feel good. @blessedmamaof3
I wouldn't expect anything either but nothing wrong with thank you cards
well I don't see it as common manners and respect. common manners and respect is telling someone Thank you for your gift. I have never expected when going to a baby shower to receive something myself, because that isn't the point. but to each their own.
true, but I was brought up to always appreciate and SHOW appreciation when handed anything at all, whether its a baby blanket, or money and to never exspect things. to me that's just common manners and respect. @mrsgeorge
Well it is kind of a point of a baby shower, to shower the mother with gifts. It's only more this generation that people expect a gift.
To all BBers...
I just wanted to let you all know I am thankful that you guys look out for one another, always give your opinion, and try to make people feel better when they are feeling down...you women are amazing...have a blessed night/day...☺️
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
yessss! 👏👏 @blessedmamaof3