I know I shouldn't be going through my SO phone but I did. And I found that he has been messaging…

confront him now

He will be home soon. What should I say? @momma_2_batbaby

I'd confront him.

be like "I understand I should trust you. but I had a gut instinct to go through your phone. I'm disappointed that you'd do something like this"

I'd confront him and be honest about the fact that you looked through his phone and saw what you saw. Ask him what it's about, just be direct. I'm sorry you're going through this @newmommy_2016

Thanks guys... I'm just so nervous. My apartment doesn't open till February and if he kicks me out, I'll have no where to live. @momma_2_batbaby @rebcamdot

Are you planning on living alone in February?

I'll be living with my mom. She is living with my grandma right now because she doesn't have a place to live yet. And there isn't enough room for me to go there along with my puppy @tahtahme

Well...this goes against what the other ladies are saying, but if my husband was texting mutlitple women (and actually seeing who knows how many of them) AND I was moving in with my mom anyway in 2w...I would just stop having sex with him (for safety for you and baby) and possibly stop most contact with him and just dip at the allotted hour. If he insists on knowing what's up or why he is not getting sex, I would either imply he knew why, or just straight up tell him. But you shouldn't risk losing your home, puppy, and maybe possessions from a crazy confrontation after violating his personal space and seeing awful information....February is not far away, and its better to have a home secured and moved into before really having a blow out if you think he is the kind of guy to kick you out to be homeless (even when he is totally in the wrong).

tbh, if it was me, I'd ask him if he's been talking to other girls...see if he tells you the truth or lies about it..

@tahtahme, thanks... Like I'm really hurt. I thought I finally found the guy to make me happy. I can't stop puking, crying... I'm a mess... @jennanddaniel I think I'm just gonna be a mess when he gets here and start packing my stuff and see what he does. I know I won't become homeless, I just don't want my dog to be in some shelter somewhere.

I agree with @tahtahme . I'd basically wait it out for the good of baby and I but not have sex.

I think you should confront him but i highly doubt he will tell you the truth, it always happens screenshot and send them to yourself and see if you can find anything else out so you can confront him with even more things @newmommy_2016 and thannhe would probably be like oh crap i got caught and tell u the thruth

I'd confront him I would of taken pix of the messages,that's what I did at one point. to be honest I know you don't want to hear this, but he seems he isn't ready and is to young to want such a commitment. don't think you NEED him. he isn't worth it,if he isn't faithful to you don't stay with him,you deserve better than that. hope everything works of for you hunny. @newmommy_2016

hun I'm 36 and had my first baby at 19. You're in for a rough ride with or without him. I don't think you should waste your time confronting him because you already know in your head what the answer is even if your heart and he does whatever to convince you otherwise. If he'd luck you out, leave you homeless and pregnant this is NOT a man you want to be with. The fact you even think he could do that should make you reconsider your relationship. I'd just keep to myself until the move out date, he'll lie anyways, if he asks what's up, tell him you both know and there no need to get into it.

I would confront him. I have been in two relationships where I found this on my guys phone. I know you don't want to hear this, but it never works out. They don't change and he just isn't ready for a commitment. :( plus you know you deserve better. Someone you know you can trust and won't do that to you or baby. Stay calm and collected and don't turn it into a yelling match. I'm sorry and good luck! You guys should be able to go through each others phones whenever you want and there should be nothing on there. It's called trust and being honest and open.

I would confront him. I've been through that with men before, and it only gets worse if you just brush it of your shoulder. no women deserves that. That is so disrespectful especially at the fact that you are carrying his child inside you. They don't really love you if they would do something like that to you...to me that is considered "cheating" you don't need to go through that