how many of you had a baby shower for your second baby? I've heard it's kind of selfish but I'm having a boy this time.

I'm going to! this baby's a girl and are we only supossed to celebrate one child and not the other? no way! both my babies deserve parties. I don't even care if we don't get gifts. I love hosting things and I love visiting with my family and friends.

I had one with all four of my children. Every baby should be celebrated, not just the first.

I love how you ladies think!

I did because I was having a girl that time. no one showed up so it was super embarrassing. I didn't want it but my husband sisters are obsessed with parties

oh no 😞 I'm sorry. personally I don't really like parties..I'll probably have to host my own, and I'm horrible at planning things.