My 3 sisters are throwing me a baby shower & at first I thought I could just let them handle everything. My inner…

My 3 sisters are throwing me a baby shower & at first I thought I could just let them handle everything. My inner theatrical director came out and demanded to be heard! After they refused to do a single thing my way, I asked them to go with my general theme (earth goddess fertility rite of passage: belly henna, flowers in my hair) & let them handle all the details. Negotiating with loving assertiveness feels awesome!