Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(
I need some advice my ex and I broke up November 27th and we haven't gotten along at all since we have fought almost ever day since we broke up and its about everything but our daughter. Now I have this great opportunity to move to New York with my sister and work in one of the biggest hospitals. He is telling me I can't take my daughter with me when this move can benefit from my kids and me. I've decided I'm going to go means I will be leaving in 2 months. But he's telling me if I leave he will take my daughter from me what should I do? Neither one of us has custody of her yet. Plus I have a son with another man and he is letting me take my son.
Anyone NOT want their hubby's/SO to stay at the hospital with you during your stay? I know it sounds harsh, but my husband stayed at the hospital during my stay when I had our son and he drove me crazy bc all he did was complain. Now he tells me (2 days before my csection) that he's going to stay and I don't want him to.
Rebecca Boyer·
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@mypregnancy_journey, thank you and I hope so too
missing77user·
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@rebeccaa_tokiko, good luck to you and your family hope everything turns out great!
Rebecca Boyer·
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@mypregnancy_journey, thank you so much. I really hope he'll understand my feelings and I'll be able to be with him and our daughter.
missing77user·
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if he wanted you and your daughter there with him it won't ever be too late to go back and get you guys he will find a way
Rebecca Boyer·
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@mypregnancy_journey, I agree, but he won't because it's his family. He doesn't like that I tell him he needs to tell his family stuff like that. I will definitely talk to him about my feelings today when he calls me. I feel like the best thing to do me and my daughter is to be there with him, but it's probably too late cause he won't come back and get us I just know it.
missing77user·
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@rebeccaa_tokiko alright well that isn't okay and he needs to put his family in their place. talk to him tell him your feelings. at the end of the day though you have to do what you feel is right for you and your daughter
Melinda ·
I would have went
Rebecca Boyer·
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I wanted to go with him, but then I didn't because of his family. I try to get along with them but I just can't. His mom lives right there too and they just glare at me with this looks like they just can't stand me. They constantly try to tell me I'm doing something wrong with my child when I'm not. Plus when he's around them he constantly leaves me and the baby behind to run off and be with everyone else. When I'm there I feel so unwanted. @mypregnancy_journey
missing77user·
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honestly. I would of went with him. he made the move for a job to provide for his family not anything else and if I didn't want him to miss out on anything I would be there right with him and the baby. is there a reason you didn't want to go with him?