Okay I have a quick question for everyone who reads this. My fiance and I don't have our own place so we live with my sister and her husband. Well he recently got a new job in a different town then where we live 2 hours away. He decide to go stay with his sister through the week while he works and is only going to come home on the weekends. I had a choice of going and is being together as a family or me and our daughter staying with my family. We have a 5 month old daughter and I don't know how long we will be home but I feel like he's really going to start missing out on stuff that she'll do for the first time. If you were in this case would you go and be with him as a family or stay with your family??... I can't help but think I should of went. I know my daughter needs her daddy but I just don't know what to do.. please help...
@rebeccaa_tokiko, good luck to you and your family hope everything turns out great!
@mypregnancy_journey, thank you so much. I really hope he'll understand my feelings and I'll be able to be with him and our daughter.
if he wanted you and your daughter there with him it won't ever be too late to go back and get you guys he will find a way
@mypregnancy_journey, I agree, but he won't because it's his family. He doesn't like that I tell him he needs to tell his family stuff like that. I will definitely talk to him about my feelings today when he calls me. I feel like the best thing to do me and my daughter is to be there with him, but it's probably too late cause he won't come back and get us I just know it.
@rebeccaa_tokiko alright well that isn't okay and he needs to put his family in their place. talk to him tell him your feelings. at the end of the day though you have to do what you feel is right for you and your daughter
I wanted to go with him, but then I didn't because of his family. I try to get along with them but I just can't. His mom lives right there too and they just glare at me with this looks like they just can't stand me. They constantly try to tell me I'm doing something wrong with my child when I'm not. Plus when he's around them he constantly leaves me and the baby behind to run off and be with everyone else. When I'm there I feel so unwanted. @mypregnancy_journey
honestly. I would of went with him. he made the move for a job to provide for his family not anything else and if I didn't want him to miss out on anything I would be there right with him and the baby. is there a reason you didn't want to go with him?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

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