Question......my bd is a friend of mine who is now dating a friend of mine. She doesn't know that my…

No! Tell him to shove it!! I'd tell her too, just to be a bitch but still let him know you don't need is loser ass. Sorry but I just can't believe how ridiculous some guys are

no ur not wrong eff him an her they the ones wrong!!! ugh makes me mad

I know right..... not like I got myself pregnant. I have had conversations with her while he was there... saying how much of a deadbeat the father is and that I didn't want him around.... he gets super uncomfortable sent leaves the room. Rather funny . I just don't mention to her he is the father. lol. I feel petty sometimes then think naaaa.. lol

@babyj2016,

it's hard to watch them together, but I'm moving 3 hours away when the baby is born so less stress.

She deserves to know what a loser he is lol

If he wants nothing to do with the baby screw him! He doesn't deserve being there at all. He shouldn't put his relationship first before his own child. You should also tell her about the kind of person he is. But screw her too! How does she not know he is the father though considering she's you're friend? If I may ask. Lol sounds like a complicated story 😋

he'll no, wth. an tell that bitch 😂😂😂

Your* ugh I hate when people don't use the proper your and look at me 😂

honestly leave it alone if seeing them together bothers you stay away from them both.... he said he wants nothing to do with the baby then u know what oh well move on its to many fish in the sea to b focused on some waste of life krabby patty (in my spongebob voice) just focus on you n your baby.... n after the baby is born take him for child support she will find out then...or if you guys r really close friends be woman enough to tell her hey im pregnant n ur gonna b a step mom...she either has two options suck it up n deal with it... or cut off all ties

I would have a hard time keeping that to myself. He's an ass for wanting you to keep your mouth shut. Enough of a man to make a baby, but not enough of a man to own up to making a baby. Smh. Piece of shit.

And like another woman said... If his gf is your friend and you care about her.. I'd let her know that her man is capable of such a thing.

what a jerk!! if he doesn't want to be there, then don't force him, but I would let your friend know the baby is his! and its his responsibility too, you didn't get pregnant on your own. get ready for the courts. wish you luck.

@peaceofheaven121, @proud2bmommyof4 @granadoskristel, @babyj2016 He and I have been friends and she never knew we were sleeping together. Believe me, she knows the kid of person he is, he has 3 other kids he hasn't seen in 5 years. She thinks no one else will ever want her so she won't stop seeing him. I honestly didn't know he hasn't seen them in that long and I had been told I couldn't have kids, so it was supposed to just be sex. But God had other plans I guess. I made poor choices, that is for sure.