I need serious help. vbac, or repeat c section? I'm terrified and not sure what to do. i don't want to choose wrong. I have to decide by tomorrow!
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
pheonix94·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
I'm not considered high risk. it's just because my first birth was a c section
Tahtahme·
В ожидании первенца
Maybe you can deliver in the operating room, since you are high risk?
Sarah·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (28 нед.)
I heard its rare but my Dr refused to do vbac. That scared me enough to not argue lol I'll have my second csection April 11th.
pheonix94·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
@tahtahme, I was thinking of doing that but he did say if it's an emergency and they need it done ASAP they might have the people there and ready in time
pheonix94·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
But @carlismommy12 I am still scared of that happening
Tahtahme·
В ожидании первенца
Why not just try VBAC and then have a section if necessary?
pheonix94·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
my ob said he's never had that happen to him in his 30 years of practice. I'm just terrified of the pain again.
Sarah·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (28 нед.)
There is a chance of your scar rupturing during labor. I'd go csection.
pheonix94·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
i want one more. maybe. He's on board for either. with my first I was induced with pictocin, pushed for 2 hours then the on call doc came and checked on me. he didn't do forceps or a vaccum or anything else to avoid anything c section. checked for 2 Seconds and said "go to surgery" I just feel like I was robbed of my chance to have a normal birth so young
Kimberly ·
I was induced with my first and had a c section with my first. Let me just say you didn't miss anything by not giving birth vaginally. It's not a pleasant experience. Lol. I personally would go for another c section but that's just me. Is your doctor on board for doing either?
Davanna·
do you plan on having more kids because if a vbac goes wrong you could lose that chance?