my son's dad thinks his gf should be able to be around him... I say fuck that... I don't know that bitch... I'll be damned if another woman gonna try and play mommy to my child... and my son's father won't see my son because she lives with him and he's made me out to be the psycho bm... idk why she can't go hang out with any of her meth head buddies and get high for an hour or 2... but... if I had 20 min and my way... she wouldn't be an issue anymore lmao

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@babybsproudmomma, my man wouldn't bring random bitches around my son anyways, but I always tell him I need to meet the girl & they need to be together for a while first & I need to be present for the first few times. Me & my hubby are never gonna separate lol but I made things like that clear before I took my birth control out in the first place. I needed him to know what was up before I even got pregnant

@killxj0y, my thoughts exactly! I barely let my mother in law spend time with my son, no way in hell would my son be around my hubbys new girl if we weren't together.

She is calling him her son I'm like no that is not your child and u known my ex for like an hour and u want him to call u mommy yea not gonna happen I

Hell no! Your child should not meet everyone his father is "dating". Plus a lot of people really can't be trusted. You have complete control! End of the day you are his mother and you know what feels right for your child.

Hell no. I barely want certain family members around my son let alone if my hubby & I separated & he found a new bitch. Absolutely not. Stand your ground. If she meets your child at all its on YOUR terms & there needs to be ground rules.

see he makes out to be the crazy one because she wants to meet him they dated for like 1 hour and she says my son

NOPE! not until she showed me I could trust her and reached out to me about seeing my child. over my dead body!

there is a story behind it my ex took his other son out of ks and I'm scared he will never bring him back

Why would that make you a bad mom? I don't think so. You're looking out for your child. At least that's my opinion. I wouldn't want anyone around my kid till I knew them well.