I understand venting because I vent when my boyfriend does something stupid but I don't say "my did (insert problem here) gosh when will men grow up." I don't mind that women vent because let's face it, half the posts I read is venting, which actually helps sometimes. But I have literally seen a girl vent about her boyfriend say men are stupid and immature and then 4 or 5 other girls join in saying "they'll never learn" "they're dogs, you have to train them" "they have small brains, it's not their faults" "they're just pigs" etc like that's demeaning and rude. I get not reading it to my boyfriend but if he's reading over my shoulder I'm not going to pull my phone away and say "no don't look at it, it's just girls bashing their boyfriends and I don't want you to get offended" he actually enjoys reading the stuff people post because it almost brings him closer to experiencing what pregnant women are experiencing @tahtahme

Intriguing. I read my husband some sad stuff, yet he never feels I say this stuff at all. Maybe if he can't handle it, you shouldn't read that to him. I agree not all men are the same, but I also see the need to vent in a safe space when it feels like they all are. I guess I just see both sides of it.

It annoys me only because all men don't deserve that bashing. I know a lot of women on here who's husbands or boyfriends read over their shoulder and see that stuff. Honestly my boyfriend asked me the other day, "do you think or say stuff about me like that on here. It looks like all these girls hate their boyfriends, are guys seriously that bad?" my boyfriend does take that stuff personal. So it may not bother some women on here, but for women who have gone through one shitty situation to another to finally find a good man, it's bothersome. It is a blessing, I agree. But when you keep downing every guy or look for the bad in him instead of tune good, you can't distinguish between a blessing and a curse. All I'm saying is not all men are the same. Just like if a guy went on Facebook and said "all women are sluts and just looking for money" that would piss you off because A.) it's not true and B.) just because he went through some pretty shitty girls doesn't mean they're all the same. @tahtahme

I guess that's the difference between us. It doesn't annoy me. It makes me sad, and other times makes me laugh, but I couldn't take it personally at ALL, especially having a good man here holding me down... Its a blessing and a privilege to have a good man--not a guaranteed right!

@boop101, I'm glad you have an amazing man in your life :) I feel the same way

yes being pregnant is hard, I understand that, at times it sucks. And yes, I understand there are no men on this app, hence it being an app for pregnant WOMEN. But as every woman knows, boyfriends and husbands do read most the stuff women post. So for the women who appreciate their SO, it's annoying to see women bashing all men because their man made a mistake or whatever it may be about. And women posting pictures or happy things isn't the same? A woman decided to be with a certain man or decided to break up with him, so that being said, just because they decide to either stick around a shitty situation or break it off doesn't mean the rest of us have to pretend we're not happy. It's completely different, good men didn't chose to be grouped into the same shit pile as the assholes, users and deadbeats, but women do it to them anyways. So me and, I can guarantee you, plenty of other women in a good relationship know that pregnancy is hard and our men aren't perfect but it's annoying to see women bash all men because of something one guy did. No one chose this man for them, them chose him themselves, so making all men look bad so you don't feel alone annoys people. Yes the situation sucks because having a child with a shitty human being, sucks. But I'm not going to have "empathy" because someone chooses to stay with that person and complain about him and all men rather than breaking it off and trying to do it alone. And yes doing it alone is hard, my mother did it with 5 so I get it, she tells me all the time, but it's not impossible. They have a choice, they're not being forced. Grown women have choices and I CHOOSE to have this opinion, if you don't like it, I'm sorry, block me, or scroll past my posts and have a nice day. @tahtahme

Agreed lol my fiancé is far from perfect but no ones perfect. He's amazing and loving in every way. Couldn't have ask for someone better to be in my life

As someone whose husband is 96% perfect, I have to disagree. Being pregnant is hard....it changes you in ways you don't even notice. That is why people break up during pregnancy...the man isnt committed and the woman's eyes are opened to see what life she is bringing her child into. No men are allowed on this app, and Preggie is very good about enforcing this rule. Soooooo its not MEN taking this personally, but rather YOU. Plenty of women post happy thoughts and pics about their man, should we complain that they are rubbing it in everyone's face? No. We accept that everyone is going through something different and pregnancy is HARD, I can't imagine doing it alone! I don't know WHO would help me if my husband didn't, I have been on bed rest for weeks and I would be I'm a RAGE if I was supposed to be on bed rest and couldn't because he had left me or his addictions had led him from the family. Have some empathy-- that's what grown women do!

I fully agree. I complain about mine but I have guy friends who are awesome and have helped me move and everything

#praisethegoodman lol @excitedmom36 @j.echo just sick of hearing how horrible men are when honestly most really aren't lol

My ex is a man child, but there are plenty of amazing men out there! One bad man doesn't equal all men!

I love my man. He is amazing! No one is perfect but he's great.