ok ladies i need ur opinions. so there's this guy well first am a single mom to a beautiful 6 almost…

I say go for it.

I Dont think its too early If he makes you happy and is good with the baby then go for it

He's showing you that he really likes you. I mean most guys wouldn't want to have a relationship with a mommy.

@amorasmom, he is. he says that's his baby I like that.

that's cute although he want to be their for you and your daugther.

I met my now husband a week before I found out I was pregnant with my third. I found out in March and we started dating in June. The next June we got married and that February had our second daughter. Now coming up on 4 years of marriage and expecting our 3rd child. While my first is biologically his he always has claimed her as his. He's the best daddy to her. I say go for it.

@breenda21, yes same thing I thought cuz no man want to take care of a baby that's not his

*pregnant with my first lol

I think u should go for it

@mrs.reitzel, thank u am a try can't hurt to try. that's what I want someone who isn't afraid who's gonna be responsible and doesn't care if that's not his child as long as he treats her as if she was am good with,that

@vane359, exactly! I say go for it because he must really like you to want to have a relationship with you especially because you have a newborn baby practically . You see baby fathers leaving the baby's life and for a guy that isn't the biological father to want to step up. Then that shows a lot ! 😊

@breenda21, yes it really does. I tell him that. I,appreciate what he does and knowing that's not his child. he asks how's my babygirl. all I care is for him to feel,comfortable with her. hopefully everything goes well

Your fine on dating as long as you know he is going to be their for you and baby

@theirmommy_2, yea I was kinda scared on dating again. I mean it's bad enough my family talks bad about me. I don't want them to think of she has a bf that quick. u get me

it isnt quick, you gave this guy time and now your ready, if your family talks bad about you just ignore it, you foubd yourself a good guy thats all that matters@vane359

I was the same way with my boyfriend. He told me he loves me for who I am and doesnt think any less of me :) Im still getting used to it but ill get there @vane359

@theirmommy_2, thanks girl like my mom says I,have to look out for me nd not care what other ppl,think

@aidens_mommy_cx, yes it's a little hard getting use to.as long as he loves u for who u r and doesn't want to change nada then that's all that,matters

yup thats all that matters. I am still insecure but he helps me along the way. He is my rock. @vane359 I hope you get the same feeling with your SO :)

girl give him a chance. :) my fiancé was like that, he was my best friend for 4 yrs though, he watched me go through a lot and my daughters father leaving. he stood up.

i say go for it not that many guys wanna be in a girl life that already have kids i think you found yourself a good guy that loves yu for you !