whats better for your first time being preggers when it comes to giving birth?!? epidural or natural unmedicated. Im due march 23rd so i have time to choose if i want it or not.
It really depends on what you feel most comfortable with.. A natural birth is always best for mom and baby as long as there is no risks but not everyone can handle it which is ok. This is my first and I'm planning an natural water birth, I don't want the epidural because then I won't be able to use the pool but if the pain is too much I know I have that option but I have faith in myself. Unfortunately the hospital wont let me deliver in the water so I have to get out to push which will suck but it's better than nothing.
okay, thanks.
Im getting closer to my due date so im a bit nervous lol im hoping its not too painful and @shakirars is this your first baby I heard first babies take longer to come out but everyones diffrent and always take deep breaths and stay calm. congrats btw! are you having a boy or girl
it's my first I'm choosing natural birth but am having a sleep Med that helps u
The only time I experienced pain was when I was getting impatient and decided to get out of the tub during transition. Bad idea. Soon as I got back in the pain went away and it was time to push. I felt a small amount of burning while she was making her way down and out but no pain. And I didn't push, I let my body do it.
I did a natural water birth and used self hypnosis that I practiced for several weeks pervious, with my first baby and loved it so shooting for the same with this one.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
What I'm saying is these weeks passing are so long