@jessica_higgins, what do you mean?

personally I would give him an ultimatum and see what he chooses.

@babie_2016, well yeah. its best to not go back n forth with him bcus anything u say he can use it against u.. and if u wanna do Child Support, mke sure u file that first.. goodluck

@ftm020216, oh I kno he'll lie, he told me already

yes ma'am. . if he file bfre u, the court may view it as if he wants to hlp. he could go in and lie and say you're keeping him away... @babie_2016

@ftm020216, so should I go first.

@babie_2016, i read through the rest of the comments pretty quick... but did i read that he is going to go place himself on CS?? if so, he's smart.. and you better try and beat him.. when men place themselves on CS in most cases (i have witnessed) it make the payments wayyy cheaper than it would be if you file first and it give him rights to your child for him to see him or get him whenever he wants... but..... to answer your main concern, it is many resources available to single moms.. i know most ppl feel like they dont wanna be on government assistance, but if u need it, then u need it.. u just hve to say f him and do what u hve to do for your child.. keep your head up momma.. dont let the bby feel your stress

@babie_2016 lol my son's father doesn't even know where we're at, other than what state we're in. he wouldn't even begin to know where to look for us at!

@lovemyson_610, lol.... it sucks too cause he has rights to my daughter... but yet he don't wanna do shit for his first son. but yet has the balls to go afterwards to child support and get his rights...

CHILD SUPPORT... and if he's like that now have supervised visits where he has to come to u to see baby most of the times they nvr show

CHILD SUPPORT... and if he's like that now have supervised visits where he has to come to u to see baby most of the times they nvr show

@victorsmommy, thank you! I'm trying too, I only have 8weeks left and once again my parents gotta do his part and buy everything.

@babie_2016 well fuck him then, my baby father didn't want to help out either, that's just one of many reasons why he'll never see my son.

you didn't fail as a mother. I promise you. he's the one missing out on a beautiful experience now that baby. please keep your head up everything will work out.

after you have the baby tell them youre exclusively breast feeding.. that should stop them alittle from bugging you about getting a job