well.. my boyfriend's mother just made me feel like shit. she's sitting here talking about all the…
well.. my boyfriend's mother just made me feel like shit. she's sitting here talking about all the sweet things he's done for all of his ex's them asked what he's done for me and I got quiet. then she changed it to "what's the sweetest thing a guy has ever done for you? " and I looked away and quietly said "no guy had ever done anything sweet for me. either ive been cheated on.. or physically abused and put in the hospital. never had a romantic date, never had anything cute done for me..." and she made this "oh shut up face" then was like "OH remember when you did this for such and such? " so now I'm just sitting in our room feeling like shit because I feel like my boyfriend isn't capable of doing anything nice for me bc bills take all of our money. :/ I know it sounds petty. but it just sucks to look back and realize all I've ever had happen to me is being beaten byy ex's and cheated on.
analisa·
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I know where your coming from except it's not my finances family who does those things it's my own my cousins really because they are jealous just brush it off your shoulders I know it's hard but shake it off show her she can't hurt you show her whatever he did in the past doesn't change your relationship show her your happy with what you have and nothing she says will change that once you give her that rise out of you that she searching for and she sees the pain you gave her exactly what she wanted girl.
Isha Lena Broadway·
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I know exactly how you are feeling right now :( and girl it sucks! I'm sorry she is so shitty to you! but even though y'all are broke right now it doesn't mean he doesn't want to do those things, money is just tight. for a lot of people.. try not to let it get you down. sure he blew money on those other girls, but they aren't still together. so it's not like you have to have that to have a successful wonderful relationship!
missing112user·
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I try. it just feels like no matter what, she's gonna hate me. I try to get to know her, try to spend the with her and him and she just always makes me out of place. it's obvious she wishes that I wasn't with him and that she doesn't approve of me. she's always talking about his ex wife and it just makes me feel like absolute shit. only reason she's somewhat tolerating me is bc he wants to be with me. and we're about to have a baby. if it wasn't for mainly having our son, she'd still be talking me down like I'm shit. @analisa_ag
analisa·
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that's when you be the bigger person and laugh it off. misery loves company girl and it's sad a grown ass adult can't do anything better but bully someone who is making their very own son happy. you just do you she hates you cuz your doing everything right let her talk she doesn't define you yes I know it's hard but out up a front show her you don't care laugh it off but don't let her think she has that over you once she sees your not weak and she can't hurt you she'll respect you but until u stand up for yourself and show her she can't break you she's going to keep trying
momma·
I know it's hard but list all the good things you&your; bf have now. if it wasn't for all the 💩 you had to go through you wouldn't be the person you are today. sorry for the bf's mom, I hate when they bring up the exs but if they were so great, why'd the break up😉 stay strong!