@shows you pick 17 weeks?

okay thanks. that's what I'm debating when to tell. everyone different and I know its preference but I do think if all goes well I'm not going to be able to wait til I deliver

honestly i think i waited bc w the 1st one i was so excited and didnt want to be disappointed again. having to go back and tell ppl that no baby was coming. i wanted to be 100% sure that it was real. saw the baby and heartbeat twice and heard it twice as well, after that i knew it was real and i made it out of the 1st trimester "danger zone"

thanks @cocomomma now whys you wait til 17 weeks? just curious?

I miscarried at 8 weeks, this pregnancy I didnt annouce outside the family until almost 17 weeks.

I'm just debating 12 weeks or wauting til finding out the sex

I know it comes down to preference and I appreciate you sharing. I did tell family around 8 weeks. I almost wasn't going to but glad and ended up in as twice already by 8 weeks. but I'm just debating on when to tell. I want to be the one to announce but once I tell one it spreads like wildfiremso I'd rather just tell all together. I'm emotionally stable if I ended up miscarried again. no one knew or was there for me before.except my mom and best friend.

After 2 miscarriages we waited until 14 weeks- our RE was kind enough to give us an ultrasound then because we were hesitant to announce.

Wait

I had multiple miscarriages but still told family and friends around 8 weeks because we were excited and they would have been supportive if we lost this baby too. Ended up telling work early because I was so sick. Good luck!

We had a miscarriage in April and I found out I was pregnant again in September I waited 16 weeks to tell some people I'm 18 weeks and most people don't know I'm trying to be private with my pregnancy

I miscarried once and next time I get pregnant I will be waiting till at least after the first trimester. I told quite a bit of my family and then had to tell them the news. It's really how you feel. Just me personally

do you mind me asking if you miscarried once or more? I mean. my man and close family know. but if I get positive news on Monday I kind of want to announce it.

I told instantly with mine this time got to excited when I found out it was viable @mommybear0809