for those who have suffered from miscarriages. I lost two of mine at 12 weeks. (separate). I go…

I told instantly with mine this time got to excited when I found out it was viable @mommybear0809

do you mind me asking if you miscarried once or more? I mean. my man and close family know. but if I get positive news on Monday I kind of want to announce it.

I miscarried once and next time I get pregnant I will be waiting till at least after the first trimester. I told quite a bit of my family and then had to tell them the news. It's really how you feel. Just me personally

We had a miscarriage in April and I found out I was pregnant again in September I waited 16 weeks to tell some people I'm 18 weeks and most people don't know I'm trying to be private with my pregnancy

I had multiple miscarriages but still told family and friends around 8 weeks because we were excited and they would have been supportive if we lost this baby too. Ended up telling work early because I was so sick. Good luck!

Wait

After 2 miscarriages we waited until 14 weeks- our RE was kind enough to give us an ultrasound then because we were hesitant to announce.

I know it comes down to preference and I appreciate you sharing. I did tell family around 8 weeks. I almost wasn't going to but glad and ended up in as twice already by 8 weeks. but I'm just debating on when to tell. I want to be the one to announce but once I tell one it spreads like wildfiremso I'd rather just tell all together. I'm emotionally stable if I ended up miscarried again. no one knew or was there for me before.except my mom and best friend.

I'm just debating 12 weeks or wauting til finding out the sex

I miscarried at 8 weeks, this pregnancy I didnt annouce outside the family until almost 17 weeks.

thanks @cocomomma now whys you wait til 17 weeks? just curious?

honestly i think i waited bc w the 1st one i was so excited and didnt want to be disappointed again. having to go back and tell ppl that no baby was coming. i wanted to be 100% sure that it was real. saw the baby and heartbeat twice and heard it twice as well, after that i knew it was real and i made it out of the 1st trimester "danger zone"

okay thanks. that's what I'm debating when to tell. everyone different and I know its preference but I do think if all goes well I'm not going to be able to wait til I deliver

@shows you pick 17 weeks?