if you've miscarried multiple times. when would you announce you're pregnancy?? I'm anxious if I…

I would wait, honestly. Nothing worse than announcing a pregnancy and then having to tell people that you lost the baby.

yeah that why I didn't mention before. but I lost both babies at 12 weeks. I go soon Monday for my 12 week check up. how long do I wait?

I think it depends on your personal preference. People have started to change their mind about things like this. Telling people, even though there is a risk of loss, allowed them a support system they otherwise wouldn't have had. It depends on if you want/need support IF something happens or if you prefer to deal with it more intimately.

Whenever you feel comfortable. Maybe after your next OB appointment. I used my ultrasound photos as part of the announcement. I got pregnant 3 cycles after my miscarriage so I waited until I saw baby to announce. Usually people wait until they're out of the first trimester to announce after w miscarriage.

I'm torn. the last few times I didn't say anything. I don't even know why. I just didn't and I miscarried. but this time. I'm debating on announcing at the mark I lost my other two. or waiting til I know the sex. I'm starting to show and people keep asking I've been pushing it off. I'm kind of excited.but trying not to get my hopes up in case of a repeat :/

I guess I should ask the question a different way.

yeah. I'm thinking 12 weeks is the safe zone. I mean certainly you can miscarry at any point. but I kind of want to be a little excited and announce if in fact it is good news

I had a miscarriage las April. We waited 16 weeks to start telling some people I'm 18 weeks and most people still don't know I'm pregnant

i had 3 before this baby. i am 19 weeks now...yay lol honestly, I didnt tell anyone unless they asked when i would come around. I started showing fast so at 2 months people thought i was 4

@lo3 miscarriages? so do I!! I felt like I never really showed. probably because I miscarried at 12 weeks. I didn't tell many but I'm starting to poke and people are starting to ask. I'm impatiently waiting to confirm I'm still carrying at 13 weeks. then I think I'm going to just tell the ones that ask. but a0ll I keep thinking is "maybe. if its not dead"

@loved4ever,

@mrs.medrano, mr

sorry ladies. I'm new to this

@mommybear0809, i felt that way too so everything makes me wonder and i was so nervous at first. I have a 3 year old but it is still new to me. i understand what you are going through. Keep positive thoughts often, I know that it is not easy doing that but do everything you can to keep your body healthy and be stress free.

@loved4ever,

I have 3 older children. its like a whole new world when you experience a miscarriage. I annonced as soon as I knew with each of them. I feel like after its confirmed tomorrow (knock on wood) I can go ahead and tell certain people. I'm still going to wait to announce it to the "public" . look but I know once I tell one person. it'll spread fast. :/