Ok sorry ladies but I have to vent somewhere maybe a little TMI .. My SO and I have been together for 6 years ... In the beginning we were all touchy feely all the time ... I got pregnant with our son and things really didn't change until he was born almost 6 months ago ... We waited those 8 LOOOOOOONG WEEKS and guess who is 18 weeks prego again ?! Yep it's a girl! Ever since we conceived our daughter things have been different(even before we knew) he barely touches me, barely kisses me, nothing ... I already have self esteem issues and this isn't helping ... I just want to sit and cry 😢 !!! I don't know what else to do to spice things up he doesn't want to do anything "intimate"!!! I practically have to beg for intimacy and still get shot down ...
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sounds like he needs some relationship revamping. what i suggest is writing him a very intimate letter ;) in that letter tell him why he is the best dad ever and why you are so happy with him. then go into more intament details. tell him what things he does that get you excited both sexual on not sexual. tell him why you think he is handsome and and normally if you add something "nauty" in there that really helps them lol. then leave this letter in his lunch bag or what have you so he will read it while he is gone that way he wants to come home to you and can't wait to see you. the next step is to then follow through with him. if he wants to be intament do it be fun exciting explorative. don't hold back and be energetic. if you give him honor and respect he will give you the love you need.
It sounds like he is maybe in shock of your second pregnancy, and maybe feeling a little overwhelmed. If I was you I would get a sitter and go out on a nice date with him! Just to change the routine and remind him that he's still important!