Quick rant & opinions extremely welcome!;;
Me and my boyfriend have been together three years, we live together in our own home, and were expecting our baby boy Kaidyn in a week or so, he always always always calls me his wife , tells me he's gonna marry me, introduces me as his wife, even his family all calls me the daughter in law etc, but when it comes down to me asking him when he's actually going to propose, I'm just " trying to rush things" or he wants to wait till he has the money for the right ring, but he can go buy a new Xbox, new shoes, new clothes, a new car, everything. I'm getting real annoyed here.
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hide the cords to all video games till you get your ring... _😂 @abiigailberlin
I'm having the same exact issues with mine! I told him I would take a quarter ring anything special coming from him. I get the same excuse.. he spends money on all kinds of things. I wish we could get inside their head because the excuses aren't answers and at this point I need to understand his reasoning to quit questioning him about it. I really wish you the best of luck!!
Those are my thoughts exactly! I don't want anything big at all! I don't care about the money, never have and he KNOWS that, all I want is my family, to call him my husband and it be real.
My rings have always been $100 to $500. We aren't at our 50yr anniversary. Young women want expensive jewels, but old women get them. I ended up having a wedding with just us AMD 2 witnesses, because I wanted to be married and didn't want to hear about money needed for a wedding. Just hire a good photographer. A marriage is like $80. All that money isn't necessary, especially if he is not saving for it. Idk just thoughts...
I just don't understand the whole, I'm "trying to rush it" what's left to rush, you say you wanna marry me so bad, you tell everyone I'm your wife, we have a stable beautiful home, our first son will be here soon, I don't mind waiting a year or so for a wedding but why can't you just propose and make it official???!!! I don't care how cheap or expensive the ring is! I want the commitment!
I was in the same situation it was always I want you to have this extravagant ring and almost 4 yrs later nothing so I left. He probably never was going to if I stayed but it's funny how soon as I left he was ready 1 month later. Men!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Love doesn't have age I'm 19 & my fiance is 33 my family is good with that because he's a grown man & responsible comes home from work and I'm pregnant this is our first baby & he's supper excited cuz he always wanted a kid by the right woman... we live together in our new house he's just a great hard working guy.... I'm pretty sure if i were to be dating an 19 year old man he wouldn't be responsible matter of fact he would be out with his friends drinking doing whatever & this is why i choose ...
My boyfriend needs to get his priorities straight or he's gone, he's always either going out to drink with his friends or smoking weed when he should be saving money for our baby and to move. I really can't take it anymore
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
Sounds like a plan!!!! @angelkisses