Quick rant & opinions extremely welcome!;;

Me and my boyfriend have been together three years, we live together in our own home, and were expecting our baby boy Kaidyn in a week or so, he always always always calls me his wife , tells me he's gonna marry me, introduces me as his wife, even his family all calls me the daughter in law etc, but when it comes down to me asking him when he's actually going to propose, I'm just " trying to rush things" or he wants to wait till he has the money for the right ring, but he can go buy a new Xbox, new shoes, new clothes, a new car, everything. I'm getting real annoyed here.

09.01.2016
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abiigailberlin

Sounds like a plan!!!! @angelkisses

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angelkisses

hide the cords to all video games till you get your ring... _😂 @abiigailberlin

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cicilovespizza

I'm having the same exact issues with mine! I told him I would take a quarter ring anything special coming from him. I get the same excuse.. he spends money on all kinds of things. I wish we could get inside their head because the excuses aren't answers and at this point I need to understand his reasoning to quit questioning him about it. I really wish you the best of luck!!

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abiigailberlin

Those are my thoughts exactly! I don't want anything big at all! I don't care about the money, never have and he KNOWS that, all I want is my family, to call him my husband and it be real.

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tahtahme
Tahtahme·Мама двоих (9 лет, 9 лет)

My rings have always been $100 to $500. We aren't at our 50yr anniversary. Young women want expensive jewels, but old women get them. I ended up having a wedding with just us AMD 2 witnesses, because I wanted to be married and didn't want to hear about money needed for a wedding. Just hire a good photographer. A marriage is like $80. All that money isn't necessary, especially if he is not saving for it. Idk just thoughts...

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abiigailberlin

I just don't understand the whole, I'm "trying to rush it" what's left to rush, you say you wanna marry me so bad, you tell everyone I'm your wife, we have a stable beautiful home, our first son will be here soon, I don't mind waiting a year or so for a wedding but why can't you just propose and make it official???!!! I don't care how cheap or expensive the ring is! I want the commitment!

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expectnmy1anonly
Kilah·Мама подростка

I was in the same situation it was always I want you to have this extravagant ring and almost 4 yrs later nothing so I left. He probably never was going to if I stayed but it's funny how soon as I left he was ready 1 month later. Men!

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