I just feel like I'm going to loose it. and family keep asking to see her and I find myself ignoring there messages because I'm just too worried. I took her to the store and had a break down because people stating at her was freaking me out. is there a way to calm down or just try to chill?

Yup, your body is full of hormones still you were pregnant and then within hours you weren't, I was emotional for weeks, don't worry it's totally normal