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HELP! Who should be in your room when you deliver?? Me, personally, I would prefer it only be my boyfriend. But of…

HELP! Who should be in your room when you deliver?? Me, personally, I would prefer it only be my boyfriend. But of course family and friends argue to be there...

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tahtahme

Tahtahme

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EXACTLY how I feel...I am like most of these people don't call daily or even weekly, why do they think its cool to come witness this??? The only one whose been there like they should be is my husband.

mamamoonbaby

Cyn

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@paris824 for the three of us really! 👶🏽

mamamoonbaby

Cyn

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Oh don't get me wrong @paris824 that's totally fine for them to FEEL that way. But it's just not enough to convince me to allow them in during that crucial bonding moment for dad and I.

paris824

Paris

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@brooklynnesmommy1203, I see that's at the end of the day it boils down to, who's going to be more supportive and who you're 100% comfortable with!

paris824

Paris

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@mamamoonbaby, my mom is my problem 😑 I guess she feels that because she's his grandmother she's obligated.

paris824

Paris

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@sexxymama83, 😂 thank you!! I certainly will keep that at the top of my to-do list!

paris824

Paris

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@emmajeremy2627, 😂🙌🏾 my thoughts are in the right track!

paris824

Paris

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@cmbwalker, Looks like I'm making the right decision 😘

paris824

Paris

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@tahtahme, LOVE IT!! I was saying that, besides the doctors and nurses he's the only one I feel comfortable with. My family tends to come around when it's beneficial to them. So annoying.

paris824

Paris

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@excitedmom36, awwwww so cute!! Congrats!

paris824

Paris

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@mimiz, thank you!

paris824

Paris

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@taija, thank you!

paris824

Paris

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@their.bomb.ass.mom, My mom is the one that'll take it the hardest. She already feels some type of way about me even having that idea.

tahtahme

Tahtahme

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My husband only. People keep inviting themselves and I just say they can stay in the waiting room as long as they like. During pushing and delivery, its my husband only!

excitedmom37

excitedmom37

Мама подростка, беременна (23 нед.)

me and my boyfriend and our 2 boys waiting to see their brother first

cmbwalker

Courtney

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I agree with you, I plan on only having my boyfriend. I feel like there are some things that just need to be kept private, even from family.

emmajeremy2627

Emma

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (26 нед.)

I agree I feel like its yours and your SO baby so family/friends don't need to be in the delivery room its a private moment to spend with each other:) and everyone should respect that if they don't use those nurses lol

sexxymama83

Mrs.RJ

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Use your nurses girl Lol. Tell them exactly who you want in there and when you want your visitors to come in. They will gladly redirect all un wanted company Lol. They don't mind trust me.

mamamoonbaby

Cyn

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I'll only be having my fiancé ESPECIALLY since my overbearing mom and sister insist on being there. My fiancé is so calm natured and supportive plus we made this baby together not anyone else!

brooklynnesmommy1203

Elizabeth

I'm allowed to have 3 people in the room (if all goes smoothly as planned) I am having my fiance my mom and grandmom in there.....if things go wrong or I need an emergency c section or something along those lines only 1 person is allowed in the room. which at that point will be either my fiance or grandmother.....my fiance prefers my grandmother cause he feel as she will better know what to do considering this is our first child....my mom feels the same way.....that's how my hospital works though

missing145user

missing145user

whoever makes you comfortable! in my opinion, I didn't want to share that moment with any family. Plus everyone felt the need to argue about who should be in there, so it was only my best friend and fiancé in there, but this time it'll just be me and my fiancé.

mimimommyof2

Mimi

Мама дочки-младенца

I had my husband mom and sister the people I live with basically everyone else hasn't been around anyway

taija

Taija

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It's your choice. They should respect that. It's a very intimate moment and they shouldn't intefere. They can see your baby afterwards.