I have a rant that ends with a question for any of you mommies who have dealt with a similar situation. My boyfriends brother, is always telling me what to do with my daughter! I live with my boyfriend and his brother lives with us (it's only temporary) but I can't stand it when he tells me what to do with her. Some of the few things he's said is "you're spoiling her" "you should feed her this" "you should get her better toys" (she loves the toys she has!!!!) and the thing that sends me to the moon the fastest is him feeding her table food that she's never had before, without my permission (he just comes up to her and puts it in her mouth) and when he's basically telling me I'm doing everything wrong. It's not his place to say those things I feel like. Am I overreacting? What would you ladies do in this situation or were you in a similar one and how did you handle it? Thanks in advance sorry it's so long.
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I'm just one of those people who gets do tired of people trying to tell us how to raise our kids. I have a 6yr old stepson with autism and everyone has their opinions but no one knows how it is in our families. They don't deal with it 24/7 like I do. We have a routine and stick to it(for him)
I think I would if he didn't listen the first time lol. When I first got with my husband, back before we were married.. We got a big house and let his brother stay with us because he was just starting training for his job. Well he thought he could do whatever he wanted and get away with it because his brother was away so much for work. I would ask him to cleanup after himself, not get the kids hyped up right before bedtime etc. well he wasn't listening to me and I finally ended up getting into a huge argument with him and that led to his brother kicking him out 😂 I probably should've gone to my husband first and let him handle it but I knew he was stressed from work so I tried myself.
@shesliketexas, I've tried many times I've tried saying well that's great that you think that, but that's not what I wanna do. I've even tried having my boyfriend talk to him but he still won't stop...I'm super close to screaming at him instead of being nice lol
Wow I wouldn't be able to handle that. I'd make it very very clear that he is not her parent and needs to step back!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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😂😂 oh my gosh I am coming so close to that point!! I tend to just ignore him now since he's been told by both of us to butt out...he does a lot of things that irritate me, he does exactly what your husbands brother did, whatever he wants! The most irritating thing is definitely when he tells me what to do with my daughter. And exactly! We know what to do with OUR kids, it's an instinct and it's usually right that's why it's there. It's just frustrating. I just wish some people would keep their opinions to themselves 🙄