okay so this may be long but i need to rant. so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now well talking we've only dated once that was back in November my whole thing is he told me he cant be without me he loves me and needs me more than i will ever know. but we broke up middle of December he was talking about marrying me before he leaves for the army but he's leaving next month and i asked him a few nights ago of we was together or not then he said "idk" so really that means no. idk why he wont settle down. what can i do to make my relationship work i want my family 😢😢 im battling this on my own. hes been putting on a show for our familys like were still together but he wont be with me if that makes since.
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sounds like he needs some relationship revamping. what i suggest is writing him a very intimate letter ;) in that letter tell him why he is the best dad ever and why you are so happy with him. then go into more intament details. tell him what things he does that get you excited both sexual on not sexual. tell him why you think he is handsome and and normally if you add something "nauty" in there that really helps them lol. then leave this letter in his lunch bag or what have you so he will read it while he is gone that way he wants to come home to you and can't wait to see you. the next step is to then follow through with him. if he wants to be intament do it be fun exciting explorative. don't hold back and be energetic. if you give him honor and respect he will give you the love you need. explain to him why you want to be a family and what it means to you. if he doesn't respond then there are other things going on.
thats what im doing. hes saying "we dont need a label" yes yes we do!
You really can't make any one be something they don't want to be .. Believe me you should never feel like everything is just on you especially being pregnant ... If that's how he wants it to be ... Stop your normal routine and go single .. Stop cooking for him stop doing the things that make you a girlfriend or a soon to be wife because that makes them comfortable they feel like you will be there no matter what you have to switch it up .
well he leaves in a few weeks for army basic so i know thats scaring him. but thats a good idea might start righting now