I have an almost 6 month old son and guess what ... I'm 18 weeks prego with a little girl, Harper! They will be 11 months apart! However, only about 10 people know the good news. I fear that this won't be good news to a lot of our family as we have been struggling financially. I just don't know when we should tell everyone ... I hate keeping it from everyone ... I just want people to be happy for us! My first pregnancy was packed full of stress (dad and grandmother passed away and my mom fought cancer) needless to say the excitement was missing !! I just want our friends & family to be excited ...
tell them whenever you are ready who cares if they are happy as long as your happy I am almost 34 weeks and half of my family still doesn't know
I am religious and sometimes I know God has way more Faith in me than I do! I know that this little girl is an amazing miracle! I have an 11 yr old step-daughter she is all pre-teen it's hilarious! She is single handedly bringing back the 70's side ponytail !!! Thank you for the positive! I am so glad I found this app!
financial struggles happen throughout life with most people. if you both are happy and believe that even struggling you can take on this little gift then that is how I would explain it. I try to think of things like this lately, god doesn't give us what we can't handle. I know some people aren't religious and if you aren't I hope I didn't offend you by saying that but babies are miracles, never mistakes. try and make that clear to them as well. good luck and congrats!! girls are so fun. 😊😊
When I told my family I felt the same way.. One family member was honest about his disappointment and I kindly reminded him that with my first child.. I didn't depend on any of them for support so he shouldn't feel as if my pregnancy/child would be any type of burden on his life. Basically, as long as you are ready that it's all that matters!