@meggers123, it's been over a year and it's still hard for me. I'm constantly thinking what could have been. I recently had my rainbow and after I had him I got diagnosed with ppd. I'm a very emotional person before my mc so I don't think that helped me to much.
It took a lot of time for me to cope with it. I'm actually pregnant again almost 6 months later. And I can barely bond bc I dont know what's going to happen
@meggers123, I wish u the best getting thru your loss. it's tough, it really is, but don't give up on yourself. As much as I hate hearing this, things happen for a reason and sometimes we'll never know why. wish I could give everyone hugs! 😢
there is one quote I learned after I miscarried and that was "my unborn child was to pure for this unsure world" hearing it really helped me u understand more that sometimes angels are needed more in other places
@meggers123, I'm gonna have to agree with @brooklynnesmommy1203 ...after I miscarried I was so extremely bitter towards everyone, everything...kids, life, God...u name it. I didn't understand why God would do that to me after He KNEW had badly I wanted a child. I constantly asked "why?" and u know what...I'll never know why, but I've came to accept the fact that God needed my baby more than we did. took me quite a while to be "okay". And then this time when I got pregnant I was terrified of it happening again. but I've read so many posts on so many different pregnancy apps just about every woman that suffers a miscarriage and vets pregnant again, is terrified of it happening again. which is completely normal in my opinion.
@meggers123, it is a every second fight. I honestly don't know how I just keep going because that is all I can do but I know he is watching over me and hopefully I can make him a big brother soon
it gets easier to live but you won't ever forget it and the pain will never go away I said future pregnancies scare you it's always scary I'm 37 weeks pregnant and due to my first miscarriage I find myself poking my tummy and waking my daughter up to have the comfort of feeling her move even at 37 weeks every doctors appointment becomes a relief I know I will be scared until I hear her cry when I reliever her.....it will always be scary it forever scars you....its good if you have people who understand and have people to support you....and it's okay to cry I've cried over and over and still do....this may be my first full term baby but I have 2 babies
@brooklynnesmommy1203, I couldn't find the work I was looking for sorry but that's how I'm looking at it. Heaven needed another angel but the Angel just needed a baby
coping isn't really a word for it.....time goes on and you learn that your angel was needed more elsewhere....in heaven.....you never get over it and it will always hurt....you kind of just learn to get up everyday and live your life....I know it sounds harsh but it's the truth.....but it will always hurt if you ever get pregnant again it will scare you half to death.....you just have to keep in mind your angel was needed elsewhere