what are your thoughts, I've told family and some close friends that I'm pregnant but haven't told facebook friends and distant family yet I'd like to but my boyfriend kinda makes me feel dumb about it cuz obviously I'd tag him in the post announcing my pregnancy, I feel he doesn't want people to know that he's having a baby. he's also told me along time ago that he doesn't want to deal with all that right now. he makes me feel dumb like why would you tell people on facebook there all scumbags and no one should know our business. it sucks cuz I'm excited and would like to be able to tell facebook without feeling guilty
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If that's the case, I'm sorry. I personally would wait until you're out of the first trimester to announce it. And hopefully (if this is his problem) he can accept it and take it as a good thing. Shiiiit, at least this is proof he's gotten some lately. What's to be embarrassed about that? Lol. If you wait to announce it, it gives you more time to come up with a really cute pregnancy announcement. =]
Girl not to sound rude but you can do whatever you want , post and tell whoever you want being pregnant is amazing :) if anything yes wait a little bit , but than when your further along girl tell whoever ! And whenever my babydaddy told me to not tell lots of people and on purpose I told everybody ! Who do they think they are to try & hide our pregnancy ?
@kimberlyyyy you're right maybe he does feel embarrassed some of his family knows but not his friends and I think cuz we've had a rocky relationship and broken up like 3 months ago that maybe his friends would say something negative
I kind of have the same problem. I was afraid to post about my pregnancy because of my mom. It doesn't matter what he thinks. If you want to post it go ahead. It's just you being happy. If he doesn't support that choice then he's not the one for you. I'm sorry girl. It must suck. I just know how you feel too.
yea.. I would just do it. people are gonna find out anyway. But I do also agree that u should wait till ur a little further along.
Well it depends... This is gunna sound mean, I'm sorry, but could he be embarrassed? Or maybe he's not ready to get grilled by family and friends.. Or he is worried since you're early into the pregnancy that something could happen? I wouldn't announce it on Facebook until after the first trimester and he accepts it more.
double edge sword. you should tell everyone. before someone else tells them .... he will get over it ! just do it
I felt the same way I still did it because its my baby and I'm excited to let everyone know I taged him just so ppl know tht yes he is the father. but he didn't care after I did it