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🚨🚨Not pregnancy/baby related and may get long🚨🚨So I have had a job and been very independent since I was 14. I started…

🚨🚨Not pregnancy/baby related and may get long🚨🚨So I have had a job and been very independent since I was 14. I started my A.A.S in 2011 when my son was almost 5, I was a single mom working full time, doing school, taking care of my son and helping out my mom who was in a wheelchair and my best friend. I lived with her and my step dad and son. She passed away 18 days after i startes school and my life flipped upside down, I refused to go home or go to work for 3 weeks. Pulled myself together, got a place, a daycare and went back to work. I met my finace in 2013 and he didnt have a job or anything. I refused to date him until he found a job to show me he was serious, I couldn't pay for 3 of us. He wanted to move in after he got his job but where I lived was section 8 and if we both worked we would be over income, so he convinced me I could quit my job and concentrate on school and my son when he wasn't at school. Who wouldnt be excited about this?! I was happy at first, relaxed and not stressed. Well its been 2 1/2 years of being a SAHM and while its nice, im tired of it. I love being home with my 2 1/2 month old, but im sick of constantly picking up and cleaning after my fiance and my now 9 year old, im not the only one that lives here. Im bored with looking at the same walls all the time, I need to get back out there and work...

@keca3691, I gotta admit baby keeps ya busy,but I was bored out of my mind when I was pregnant, you can only clean and deep clean so much! and 2 people in this house are old enough to help, but wont, I get my fiance works hard, but damn im tired to! Babies take a lot of work and I have had a cold all week so I haven't felt like doing crap but they wont help either, part of me feels like if I was working to then he cant use that against me, sorry ranting again lol

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Adult children living at home

Adult children living at home My husband and I argue about this all the time. He says he will never put our children out and they will always have a place to live here at home. I completely disagree. My children can live at home through college if they choose to go and a short while after while they find a job and get on their feet. However, if they choose to not go to school or not have a job, there is no way they will live at home for free. I just feel like when you're an adult, it's time to act like one. I also would not let my married children live at home either. Of course there will always be exceptions like if they fall on hard times, lose their job, have health issues, etc. I also would let them stay for a while if they were in "transition", as in they are waiting for a house to be built or something.

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old.…

This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling, so i thank you for letting me share this with you ladies. You have always been nice and supportive. Happy birthday son, your mom loves you.