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Sorry I haven't updated in a while, dropped my phone in the loo rushing around to go to the…

Sorry I haven't updated in a while, dropped my phone in the loo rushing around to go to the hospital! I had a UTI and have been taking antibiotics. I've now switched midwives because my original one didn't follow up my urine sample that was sent off to be further tested for infection and it could have spread. I'm really lucky because that was painful enough!😞

Had to endure a 'surprise visit' from MIL yesterday and she said some horrible stuff and demanded waiting on even though I'm on bed rest. She went in my bedroom without asking and went through my daughters wardrobe commenting on how I don't have enough clothes for her. I know I don't and it upsets me but I would if her useless son would pull his finger out. Also didn't take her shoes off and tread mud through my carpet then said 'oops more cleaning for you...' and sneered at me, even though I keep my flat spotless. Ugh I'm now tied to that family forever for my daughters sake🙄

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sophiegreen

Sophie

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Don't put up with that at all, she sounds like a nightmare, you're on bedrest who the hell does she think she is acting like that? My boyfriends parents made a sly comment about my mum buying the Pram when they didn't even bother or ask and I went mental, you shouldn't have to put up with that xx

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staceyymzack

Stacey Marie

Don't feel like you are tied to them. She does sound awful and I really feel for you. Put your head high and know your little girl will have the best start in life because your there. Just focus on you and baby and let the rest do as they please. That's what I've learnt over the years. My family is always up and down. Luckily my parents a drink my partners parents are great but the rest are nightmares. But I just ignore them now. Don't show they are bothering me. Xx

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ceecee190

Cherelle

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (12 нед.)

I can't begin to explain how pissed off I am at how ur MIL acted and spoke to you, who the hell does she think she is! My son don't have a lot of clothes either as clothes cost money, so does food, having a flat and day to day living but at least he is dressed, is never cold or dirty. Some people live such high mighty lives thinking that because they did this everyone should too and if not they look down on us. I don't know you but I bet you are doing an amazing job. Remember that ur not dating ur MIL ur with her son, if she can't be respectful and treat you like a grown woman show her the door! Do what u can for your children because the very fact that ur daughter is alive and even has clothes at all is a sign that u love and provide for her! 💜💚💙 sending u strength xx

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b.margyte

Brigita

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Omg let me at that woman ill give her a piece of my mind or you ! Disrespecting you in such a way and then saying that when your not well! Who does she think she is ? Im sorry but im so angry at her from reading this! My baby doesnt have that many clothes but you know what they dont need a wordrobe that costs £5000 because they grow out of it so fast so tell her to shove her snotty remarks where it dont shine and tell her shes lucky enough if you allow your daughter contact with such a rude disrespectful and ill manered witch! I dont know you but i bet you will be a a great mum just dont put up with that b*tch ! Excuse my language... 💙💙💙

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baby316

baby316

Glad you are ok. Have been wondering how you are. I've got a UTI at the moment too!! So uncomfortable. Could even walk properly a couple of days ago x

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sairainbow

Aprajita

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I am defo agree with you guys @ceecee190, @b.margyte when it comes to baby stuff, I would never buy too much stuff for my baby specially when it comes to clothes and shoes but he will defo have enough. Honestly, whats the fuss if they do have only 10 outfits anyway they will out grown by the blink of an eye .. huh!! Stupid women. I would suggest you shud tell her not to tell u how to raise ur kids coz you are already putting up a lot effort and struggling with the one she raised .. What a snob? XxxX Ignore that women, I blv all the MIAk

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sairainbow

Aprajita

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@mamapop, I have bad history of recurrent UTI, and I have tried every single remedies on this earth including antiboitics.Personally I have been cleaning myself with baking soda not regularly but once in a while in pregnancy (totally upto u) and putting coconut oil inside out which really really helped me to survive in this pregnancy so far and yeah can't deny water 3ltrs atleast.. If you have concern regarding baking soda, I would suggest search b4 u do it, coz as far as I know baking soda helps in maintaining vaginal acid in control and helps in creating more alkaline enviroment for sperms to survive. On that note I thought it wud be safe but coconut oil has no harm and helped me alot.

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mamapop

Poppy

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Her comment really upset me because I hate not having my own money since being fired. Even with the sure start grant I still haven't got everything for baby. I expected OH to at least buy some things but all he's got is a jumper that was £2 when he earns well over a grand a month and pays nothing out but car insurance, tax and petrol 😡

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