im 21 married and we have a beautiful son,we have a great marriage,no we aren't perfect we do argue,we get mad,we struggle at times normal stuff,,but we love each other and we trust each other 100% and it works out because we talk things out,if we are too upset we stay in separate rooms until we cool off and then move on,we never insult each other because even when upset we respect each other,and that's where a lot of couples mess up,you get angry and immediately start cussing and yelling and make a huge scene,and you start losing respect for each other,.be a team, work together,work on things that need to be fixed ,if you love and trust each other everything else will fall into place but nothing will change until you do,until you make an effort to better your relationship,i hope this helps someone !