It's like I'm not good enough for anyone, even my son ... 💔
abusive father If a man is abusive to the mother of his child does that mean he will be abusive to the children? Can he be a good father and an abusive spouse?
Adult children living at home My husband and I argue about this all the time. He says he will never put our children out and they will always have a place to live here at home. I completely disagree. My children can live at home through college if they choose to go and a short while after while they find a job and get on their feet. However, if they choose to not go to school or not have a job, there is no way they will live at home for free. I just feel like when you're an adult, it's time to act like one. I also would not let my married children live at home either. Of course there will always be exceptions like if they fall on hard times, lose their job, have health issues, etc. I also would let them stay for a while if they were in "transition", as in they are waiting for a house to be built or something.
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.
Oshanna·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@buckbb, I absolutely agree, I left him. See my last post and you will see what exactly I was going on :/
Sarah·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (29 нед.)
@beautifuldisaster, you are making the right decision for you and your children! i stayed with my daughters father for 4 years and he was an abusive asshole! (not towards my daughter just me) but i stayed only for her... and it was like one day i realized that i didnt have to be treated that way and my daughter didnt have to see me being treated that way! its a hard choice to make but its worth it!
Aggie E·
so very proud of you... its a huge step to see and go through... you will meet so many woman that will support you and help on your way... I will have you in my prayers tonight ... your so brave and amazing and I just know this new year will be life changing and will be great for you and your lil ones... time to love yourself again beautiful ...
Jessica Young·
I'm glad you're taking the next step !! You deserve much more then what he is putting on the table ! You have my support ! Stay strong, and remember you are doing the right thing. You don't want your children growing up in that atmosphere... I'm so sorry it had to happen this way, but I hope it helps you move forward with your life in a positive direction! XXX hang in there !