Rant on my SO:
So him and a friend got into a year long fight where they didn't talk to each other, I told him to just talk to him and he refused. Anyways they are on good terms now and I made a joke about how "oh now there all buddy buddy". And have explained it was a joke. Well now he told his friend he should move to Montana where we live and his friend says he can't move until May 2017 because his girlfriend is in school until then. From what I knew they just started dating so I asked if it was serious.. Well I said maybe they should think about moving in future there if they're actually considering moving to Montana I know it causes a lot of stress moving across the country and its axis just moving in with someone you haven't lived with before. His respond is. " you don't need to put in your yep cents I'm just telling you a story". Wtf!? I didn't even have an attitude just speaking what I thought.. Then I told him a sd story k read online today and I said it was just sad. And he responded with "two cents" if you will and I said. It's just a story, doesn't need input. And now he's mad at me!? Like why can he say these things and it's okay? But it's not if they gables are turned
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A lot of people don't see the bigger picture of it. (Not saying he doesn't) but shit gets rough. Especially if you're still getting to know one another . Luckily when I moved to Nc my husband wasn't with me (since he had just gotten stationed there). But I'm pretty sure it would've been hell if he was with me. It was hell moving out of NC to the point I just wanted to be like "you go in staying here" but we have the stress of him getting out 6 months early. To us packing the cars . To just having to drive forever . Luckily we both drove different cars over here so we didn't fully have to deal with one another. And we took our time getting here. And would stop at night . we still bumped heads a lot even then lol But we've been together 5 years so we know how to ignore each other pretty good when one of us or both are being assholes 😂
Exactly! @yaddie me and a boyfriend of a year or two tried to move across country and the drive alone was to much,... We broke up a week into it. Just happened to my friend and his girl too... Moving in general is stressful and if you don't know how to deal with the other person yet all the time it's different.. I was just saying that out of concern.. But he took it as me being rude.
I totally understand where you're coming from though. I moved from Cali to Nc when my husband and I got married And it was the hardest thing not knowing anybody and trying to learn to live together. (He knew people from work. )So It was just a bunch of changes happening at once . Lol
@yaddie, haha I love it! I agree it's a lot of work.