Oh hun that is awful :( I had issues with my sister in law being horrible to me, so I turned to the Internet for advice, I read somewhere that 'it is none of your business what other people think of you', at first I wasn't sure how I was supposed to take it, but then (and this is hard) I realised what she thinks of me doesn't matter. I'm me and I won't be anything else, and I won't change how I act around her to try to make her like me. Her brother loves me and he knows me better than anyone . That's all that matters. Be pleasant, but don't try to convince them you're nice, if they can't see that and are determined to talk about you it won't matter what you do! But when they come to see your baby, what you say goes, if you want the baby back in your arms /not disturbed from a nap, what you say goes!! Good luck and chin up, you're a mummy, you've just brought a tiny human into the world, don't let anyone taint that! x

Well as long as you and your partner don't let it effect what you have and keep you chin up and head held high and act normal and polite then she has nothing to say about that.. she probably wants you to bite and then you have fallen into her hands. hope you're all ok hun and congratulations on baby xx