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really afraid my fiancé thinks I'm gross now bc I'm bigger...he doesn't want to have sex with me as much anymore or take…

really afraid my fiancé thinks I'm gross now bc I'm bigger...he doesn't want to have sex with me as much anymore or take off my shirt during like he used to. how do I confront him in a way that won't sound like I'm whining lol.. :/ we've both always had high sex drives but recently it's been...super sparse. :( advice?

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autumn

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It might not even be you. Some men are just nervous to have sex when there's a baby between you guys. But I know how you feel. It's horrible. This happened to us and I finally had to confront him. Unfortunately it was after a four hour silent road trip and a night without talking to him (hormones are a bitch) because I was so upset about it, needless to say I blew up. Don't let it boil. Get it off your chest and get some clarity. It's petty but every time I think that my boyfriends not attracted to me anymore, I tell myself that once I get my body back, I'm not going to let him have it and I'll flaunt my stuff in front of him and torture him haha. Not that id ever do that, but it does give my hormonal and emotional self some sort of comfort lol

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tabbitha

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

same here u definitely have to talk to him before it gets to u deeper I had no weight til 6almost 7 months then boom I'm huge same here I'm alllllll baby

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@maddoxmommie0127, I'm 34weeks now...the last time he saw me I was only 19 weeks so I was alot smaller...I warned him over the phone before he came back to not expect me to be as small anymore...I know he loves the fact that we're having a baby, but I think he is weirded out by how my body looks now and doesn't get turned on as often bc of it. :/ it's not even how my BODY looks...I have no stretch marks except for 3 tiny ones on either sides of my hips and the majority of my weight is baby... :/

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tabbitha

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I'm going thru it now makes nee feel unwanted it went from like every two days to maybe every three weeks... I had a breakdown he spends more time makk g me feel wanted now it wasn't even just sex.. that was way made me feel better about myself just tell him ever wanna talk hmu

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Shay

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@mommytobe15, you're so right. lol guess I'll try explaining tmrw. :)

proudmom15

Christina

Just tell him how you feel and see what he says. Guys are just like that..you have to tell them what you want or how you feel..they are clueless lol

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