Thank you guys!! And now he's wanting to fight me on the name which I don't think he has the right too

Whatever is more comfortable to you! If you'd like him there then I'd go for it. If not and it'll only stress you out more then I wouldn't. Because it's better to just avoid the situation!

Only do what's comfortable for you. My baby daddy hasn't been involved until the last 2 months but I don't exactly trust him but I keep him involved anyways as much as possible whether he wants to or not. Unfortunately he won't even be here for the delivery and honestly doesn't bother me. I try to keep my feelings out of it and think of the baby when she's older and asks about her dad. I want to say that I tried and did not do anything to keep her dad away... Just don't let him stress you out. You got this momma 👍🏼

if he's willing to really be there and make this time EASIER rather than HARDER, then go for it, but if you don't feel like you want him there then don't let him! it's your day! worry about what's going to make you comfortable :)

Only if it would benefit you to have him there. Its not the time worry about anyone else except you. You don't want to add any unnecessary stress

If you don't feel comfortable no it's not necessary