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Brenda Herzer
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So since I'm a single mom and the dad and I aren't together should I let him be in the delivery room? He hasn't even…

So since I'm a single mom and the dad and I aren't together should I let him be in the delivery room? He hasn't even really been there throughout my pregnancy but wants to be involved. Advice please!

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brendabee23

Brenda Herzer

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Thank you guys!! And now he's wanting to fight me on the name which I don't think he has the right too

brianna6987

Brianna

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Whatever is more comfortable to you! If you'd like him there then I'd go for it. If not and it'll only stress you out more then I wouldn't. Because it's better to just avoid the situation!

sweetpea_nut

Danya

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Only do what's comfortable for you. My baby daddy hasn't been involved until the last 2 months but I don't exactly trust him but I keep him involved anyways as much as possible whether he wants to or not. Unfortunately he won't even be here for the delivery and honestly doesn't bother me. I try to keep my feelings out of it and think of the baby when she's older and asks about her dad. I want to say that I tried and did not do anything to keep her dad away... Just don't let him stress you out. You got this momma 👍🏼

wrd2016

Jackie

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if he's willing to really be there and make this time EASIER rather than HARDER, then go for it, but if you don't feel like you want him there then don't let him! it's your day! worry about what's going to make you comfortable :)

missing324user

missing324user

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Only if it would benefit you to have him there. Its not the time worry about anyone else except you. You don't want to add any unnecessary stress

mimimommyof2

Mimi

Мама дочки-младенца

If you don't feel comfortable no it's not necessary

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?