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Hannah McCown

I am 28 weeks pregnant and cut ties with the father when I was 2 months pregnant because he was…

I am 28 weeks pregnant and cut ties with the father when I was 2 months pregnant because he was verbally abusive and I got a temporary restraining order on him. I don't plan on putting him on the birth certificate because all he has done my whole pregnancy is harass me, but now and then he will text me and tell me he wants 50/50 custody and he's moving to another state. What are the odds he could get 50% custody of my son without a paternity test and not being on the birth certificate? I don't want him to take my baby away from me..

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missing324user

missing324user

Мама дочки-младенца

I highly doubt it. Document any kind of abuse to show to the judge.

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aaliyahadelyn

Aaliyah

Мама дочки-младенца

Screenshot anything he says in text or on social media! It's all proof you can use against him! And he can't do anything without a paternity test!! I'm going through the same thing right now! And you can get free legal help he can't tho

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runner32

Hannah McCown

I was just wondering what the odds were a mother wouldn't get full custody of her baby

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lashellg

dylisha

Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

You're fine. You have more rights than he does at this point. He can go to court and legitimize the child through paternity. But also express your concerns and provide documentation to the court. Save everything. I doubt they will grant the out of state thing. I had someone go through the same thing and the judge granted visitations but the parent could not go out of state with the child.

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gypsy.soul2

Elle🌻

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

in NH it seems pretty simple. if you don't want to cooperate with him on the baby then he can file a petition for visitation and custody, they'll have you do a paternity test for him and will probably grant him visitation and custody as far as imports the decisions need him to consent too as well, if the baby lives with you for at least 6mo then he will have to file in the stage you're in.. but most states aren't going to keep a dad away from his child if he has a steady income, no violent history or violent crimes, and is a good citizen.. they'll likely have you both make a parenting plan before thinking about even seeing you in court bc they try to avoid that... you can require child support though if he does move out of state and the state may actually require him to. @runner32

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runner32

Hannah McCown

He has a bad record, 3 dui's other shit, and harassed me my whole pregnancy I don't trust him alone with my baby that's all im worried about at this point. I want full custody always.

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