Birth Plan Rant I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
Been thinking a lot how do I tell my family I dont want them at the birth of my daughter they all assume they will be there and havent had the energy to argue with them about it but I really just want me and my babys father. wish my family would understand that.
hello ladies I'm back and I'm pregnant!! just 4 MONTHS after giving birth to my daughter 💙💚💛💜
Anyone who wants to rant can rant in the comments lol I love ranting I'm sure everyone does. My rant is I was literally laying in bed naked and my boyfriend said no and played games instead. I'm feeling kind of unattractive at this point. I know hormones during pregnancy can make a guy not want any just as it can make us women not want sex, but damn I miss him going crazy over me 😭😭
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
missing268user·
I swear some people-.- girl stand your ground that's your time. I watched a family member go into labor and people wouldn't leave her alone and after Hunter was born they were playing pass the baby, I felt so bad for her. no one will be allowed in my room at all@abella1023
missing145user·
Honestly, you have no idea how many people I barely saw asked t come see my baby and never did, which I didn't expect them to, some people just say things like that trying to be nice but I agree, no one is being allowed in the room with this baby for me. And I was so selfish and didn't even let anyone else hold my baby for 24 hours after my first was born. Some people don't get how important that moment/time is.
Andrea·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
@callumsmommy, it's crazy like dam I haven't even had her yet and it's not like I'm in the hospital yet😒 yes I hate that passing the baby from person to person like I've waited 9 months let me be selfish with her lol I'm thinking I'll ignore everyone and just say OPPS my phone died lmao
missing268user·
😂😂😂 get it girl, you have earned being selfish!! definitely @abella1023
kc ·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)
at least she asked can she come. most people just show up.
missing268user·
@abella1023, see lol I already put it on FB
Andrea·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
@their.bomb.ass.mom, I wish people wouldn't show up lol its like annoying because you just gave birth your tired and you kinda have to like host them when all you want to do it enjoy the baby. Yeah I get they try to be nice but I barley see them😑 I feel like it's them being nosey lol
Andrea·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
@3.26.16, Ohhh no I would not let them in I'll make my hubby say I'm sleeping or breast feeding lol luckily my hospital only allows 4 guests at a time. Which is not a lot considering him and my mom always going to be there lol that leaves only 2 guests. Opppsss lol
missing145user·
I'm being privately listed so no one can just show up, and they have to be invited. That's how seriously selfish I'm being, 😂😂
Andrea·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
@callumsmommy, I should do that 😂😂😂 no jk then this girl will think I'm directing it towards her🙈 I'll stick to "my phone died" story lmao...
missing268user·
@abella1023, lmao yeah I did it randomly, my fiance's aunt thinks she has free reign to Callum like i will cut her-.-
Andrea·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
@their.bomb.ass.mom, niceeee I'm thinking I should do that! Haha and I've heard people make a deal with the nurses on a code word for when there are people the nurse kicks them out saying mommy and baby need to rest! 😂😂
missing145user·
Yup, they do that, and if you do like we do, and are privately listed, you have the choice to set up a password, and if someone just comes up asking to see you they'll see you are privately listed and since they didn't say the password they'll tell them that there is no one admitted by that name there. 😂
Sylvia Reyes·
В ожидании первенца
I'm doing the same only allowing grandparents I don't want people who never even cared to ask how I was doing through out my pregnancy there.
Andrea·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
@isaacsmommytx, Yesss! 🙌🏼 exactly!! Lol