RANT! See this?! I even had the baby yet I'm already getting asked if they can visit at the hospital😒 this isn't family just a friend that a barley see. I'm sorry but after giving birth I only want immediate family there along with my hubby and daughter. I know a lot of the family will not like that but I just gave birth. I don't want the whole world to come visit me! I went through that with my 1st daughter because my mom allowed it and I didn't know any better. But nope! Not this time!!! 😡 rant over.... Lol
Yup, they do that, and if you do like we do, and are privately listed, you have the choice to set up a password, and if someone just comes up asking to see you they'll see you are privately listed and since they didn't say the password they'll tell them that there is no one admitted by that name there. 😂
@their.bomb.ass.mom, niceeee I'm thinking I should do that! Haha and I've heard people make a deal with the nurses on a code word for when there are people the nurse kicks them out saying mommy and baby need to rest! 😂😂
@3.26.16, Ohhh no I would not let them in I'll make my hubby say I'm sleeping or breast feeding lol luckily my hospital only allows 4 guests at a time. Which is not a lot considering him and my mom always going to be there lol that leaves only 2 guests. Opppsss lol
@their.bomb.ass.mom, I wish people wouldn't show up lol its like annoying because you just gave birth your tired and you kinda have to like host them when all you want to do it enjoy the baby. Yeah I get they try to be nice but I barley see them😑 I feel like it's them being nosey lol
@callumsmommy, it's crazy like dam I haven't even had her yet and it's not like I'm in the hospital yet😒 yes I hate that passing the baby from person to person like I've waited 9 months let me be selfish with her lol I'm thinking I'll ignore everyone and just say OPPS my phone died lmao
Honestly, you have no idea how many people I barely saw asked t come see my baby and never did, which I didn't expect them to, some people just say things like that trying to be nice but I agree, no one is being allowed in the room with this baby for me. And I was so selfish and didn't even let anyone else hold my baby for 24 hours after my first was born. Some people don't get how important that moment/time is.
I swear some people-.- girl stand your ground that's your time. I watched a family member go into labor and people wouldn't leave her alone and after Hunter was born they were playing pass the baby, I felt so bad for her. no one will be allowed in my room at all@abella1023