I'm at the point where I have to except that I will never be that special woman for anyone. every…

That's ignorant to say "maybe you should get a man" .. Coming from someone who's pansexual .. Gender doesn't define someone. There's immature men AND women, & good men AND WOMEN as well. Just saying that that comment can offend a NUMBER of people.

I was speaking for her, nor did I say she was offended. But it's a pretty large community you can and would offend if they read such a comment. Don't tell me to back off either.

Wasn't * speaking for her.

just because a gender isn't "working" out doesn't mean I switch genders. you can't choose who you like. I like woman and am proud, however my choice in them seems to be poor, or I'm just really not able to be loved. and I've tried being with a man, it sucked and I hated every minute. only good out of it was my son, and he was abusive. @capri2015 thank you @sahhelizabeth

Well, I now have been blocked after receiving a message which was just as petty as such a comment. However. I am responding with just this: a public comment such as the one she had about your post deserves a public response. Some don't use their voice in the gay community for many reasons & if me using mine gets a thank you for you or anyone else .. I would do it all over again. :)

The right girl will come along. Until then and even after I'm more than happy to be there for you to vent to if you'd like!!