So my best friend is getting married in August and my baby will be 2 months by then. Her wedding is a child free wedding. My baby is her god child , yesterday I told her , the baby might have to come because of the baby being so young. Today she called me with concern that one it's a child free wedding, 2. She told other people no kids 3. If the baby comes music is to loud 4. Doesn't want my husband and I fighting at her wedding . I reassured her that , let wait and see what happens , but if I have to bring the baby I'll make it work. How would you ladies feel
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take the baby. it's 2mths old. if worse comes to worst, then cut out of the wedding. You do what's best for you & your family.
I wouldnt bring baby, well I wouldnt want my young ine that age around that loud of music at the reception, and usually drunk people, not my cup of tea to bring my newborn around but thats me, I would leave baby with parents or grandparents, I dont have anyone to watch my kids so I never go to that kind of stuff. Did she have the no kids rule set when you accepted MOH position? or did she do that later?
right it's too soon to make decisions about how you would feel leaving your baby some place without you for hours
I still don't get it a newborn will cry , your husband will have to tend to baby during ceremony after the ceremony and pix then you will take over it's a newborn! why would he get so irritated by a newborn doing what newborns do knowing you are a part of a wedding party? I mean he can't prepare to take care of the child for one day for a few hours without getting irritated ????? Its confusing idk if to be mad at your friend for saying that or mad at your kids dad for lacking patience and the baby isn't here so how does anyone know he will be irritated unless he is just that type of perso. who has no patience and hates to hear kids cry?
well she's kind of wrong for saying no kids and then making you her Matron of honor.. Knowing you'd have a newborn. I don't know, it's your call but Matron of Honor or not, I would be telling her to find someone else.
@ginag918, baby could be with my mom or grandparents but I can't make any decisions yet , baby isn't here
I think that you should let her know that's your new baby and since you are the maid of honor you will be there and because your child will be too new for you to feel comfortable leaving with someone else your baby will be at her wedding as well and her telling others means nothing because MOH means special perks like brining your two month and the bride now having to explain to anyone as to why a baby is there once she says it's my MOHs baby that will shut people up
@ginag918, she said about fighting if the baby keeps crying and my husband gets irritated and gets into a fight with me
Don't bring baby. Leave early or don't go at all and let her know in advance so she can get a replacement.
why would you and your husband be fighting at her wedding? are you guys in that bad of shape that she thinks 7 months from now with a two month old child that you and your husband would get that mad at each other that you would have an altercation at her wedding? I mean like why would she say that I would be more offended by that than her saying no baby allowed. but you're the maid of honor your child is two months who would you really want to leave the baby with that young ?! smh that's a tough one
@boogersbugsanddirt, I understand her reasons but if someone had a newborn I wouldn't say no to them
I'm really sensitive about people telling me not to bring my kids somewhere, especially at a young age. I hardly let them out of my site when they were 1 and younger. That's just me but that's probably the reason I don't really have friends.
@xoxo512070, I wasn't pregnant when the wedding was planned and I was asked to be MOH