@amarie98, thanks you are too sweet ❤️

@shakirars, that's deep... thanks so much, I'm gonna pray and hope for the best.. that's all I can do

sorry my messages are so long I actually talk them out

@tiarasaqueen, I'm so sorry.. I was a hot mess and still am.. so I can only imagine how you feel. Honestly I can be there for you if need be. we all need someone.. and seeing as though we pretty much know what each other are going through

I was with my guy for two years our anniversary is actually on his birthday December 11th. But yeah you know the truth is love is what this world's about it is without love even in the Bible it says without love you you don't live God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life you have to love. another thing that I want to tell you is put God first I promise you if you do he will fix everything in your relationship he will if you truly want that from the bottom of your heart and God sees your heart he will fix it will you have to do is pray for your baby father my baby father has cheated lied he's even put his hands on me once and the thing is I have prayed and prayed back to back at first I was doing things myself like and trying to fix it trying to be more beautiful trying to be more of this and more of that but that's not the way to go I prayed and I prayed and I prayed and I left him alone and I prayed and I just prayed in all of a sudden I get this phone call and might take some time but that's okay because if you look in the Bible a lot of things that the big profits have went through it took years and years and years and years and I'm not saying wait for that long but what I am saying this even if you're not with him pray for him because he's going to turn around he needs you even know right now he's acting like a complete a****** he needs you more than ever because he's battling so much stuff out here in this world such as girls in situations that he has to go to he don't even know what he's doing is wrong and how deep the situation really is and how he has a baby mother who was carrying his child for nine months have to be stronger than ever is hurting.

My 3rd baby and here I thought I would be welcoming a baby into the world not in the delivery room alone this time but he doesn't even express interest to even want to be in the delivery room . He was for his first child but not me. That hurts. Especially when I'm due next month. All by myself, again. Something I extremely feared.

You're already doing better than me. Going through a break up or any sudden tragic thing you need a great support system, I literally have no one and I feel like I'm suffering and getting so depressed about it. It's horrible. It truly is.

@tiarasaqueen, I've been with him for over 2 years.. I have a good support system when it comes to family but I really wanted him to be there for me more than he has been..

@shakirars you're exactly right, I know now better than I ever did to never give my all to somebody.. it only hurts you in the long run :/

trust me I'm going through the same thing at 28 weeks about a month or two ago me and my baby father broke up we have a humongous fight bigger than ever before but were actually starting to work things out better than we did now but what I had to realize is you have to give them space to want you I was so clingy to my baby's father because I was pregnant with his child because I wanted to be underneath him all the time so that it turned him off and he knew he had me so when I stepped out of the picture and let him see you can't have me you don't act right he came crawling back literally so just give him the space and when he finally does come back don't put your all into somebody I realize you can't put your all into one person I just put my all into God and whoever else comes comes

Omg, yes. Been single for going on 6 months. We were engaged for almost a year and I'm still not completely over him or the situation at hand. It's so hard, especially when I don't have a healthy strong support system in my time of need. I am right there with you . 😫😥😢