I would never say my BD is a piece of shit. He will be a good father, I think, but once I found out I was pregnant I weighed all the pros and cons about our relationship. I came to the conclusion it wasn't good for me with the constant stress. I'm definitely not saying anything about your post because I get it. But maybe there's somethings a woman is willing to deal with but not with a child in the picture. But I totally understand what you mean!

Great! Glad u all move passed the abusive stage!

um I can speak from personal experience when I found out I was pregnant we were only together for a month. I got pregnant pretty much as soon as we met. and the first couple months after we found out it was hell. we were fine until we both found out. I mean at one point shit got physical I back handed him he threw shit at my car I punched a dent into my car... now we are perfectly fine living together and expecting our daughter to be here in a couple months. completely 180 on what it was like before. unplanned pregnancies take a huge toll on some people

Of course. But the things i see being complained about are not just shit that pop up overnight... I know anything can happen-but a gamer has ALWAYS been a gamer... Drug addict, chances are he didnt just turn into one over night. And im not speaking of any one in specific just examples..

Pregnancy is a huge life changing thing it can put a massive strain on even the best relationships

some pregnancy just happen no all are planned

A lot can happen in a month. Just saying.