is it wrong i want to leave my SO I'm just too homesick anymore his whole family lives here i have none plus he don't want his family to I'm pregnant
id also give him an option set a date with me or ill do it my self but thats me im over spoken and hard headed
Then tell him no that you are not comfortable with it that you are excited about it and need some one to be able to talk to face to face about it money comes and goes your children are your life
@southernmomma2be, seems really weird that he wouldn't want anyone to know until he has money. When I was with my kids dad we were flat broke and living with my dad but we still told people. Seems even stranger to not want his mom to know she is going to be a grandma. Almost sounds like he is ashamed your pregnant.
he keep saying he want to wait till he has money saved to tell people and his mom he don't want her to know at all :@xoamac @mom13
Smh at him. You can't hide a baby. Lol it's gonna be noticeable pretty soon. 🤗
Yea I agree with @mom13 that's an excuse you should talk to him about it more so you can have a better understanding
@amorasmom, @shelbysuepippin not to sound mean but to me its an excuse, most moms wait to announce after 12 weeks but i didnt i announced as soon as i found out for both my first and this my second think maybe you two should sit down and agree on an exact time to announce i think that would help you some
because he says he need to get his mind together and get money @mom13 plus he's a huge momma boy she and him a tight
you need to tag people so they know you replied
why doesnt he want his family to know your pregnant is what they are asking @amorasmom @shelbysuepippin
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