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Lexi

is it wrong i want to leave my SO I'm just too homesick anymore his whole family lives here i have none plus he don't…

is it wrong i want to leave my SO I'm just too homesick anymore his whole family lives here i have none plus he don't want his family to I'm pregnant

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mom13

KimberlyМама дочки (5 лет), беременна (30 нед.)

I really dont think a lot of "men" grow up mine still acts like a child as well and we are having our second but we have been trying for our second for 3 yrs now our 1st is 5yr old girl we are now expecting our first son and want 2 more

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southernmomma2be

Lexi

@mom13, im giving Jan 29 to tell his mom (his 29 yet acting like a child)

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mom13

KimberlyМама дочки (5 лет), беременна (30 нед.)

id also give him an option set a date with me or ill do it my self but thats me im over spoken and hard headed

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mom13

KimberlyМама дочки (5 лет), беременна (30 нед.)

Then tell him no that you are not comfortable with it that you are excited about it and need some one to be able to talk to face to face about it money comes and goes your children are your life

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kerragannicole

Kerragan NicoleМама сына-младенца, беременна (34 нед.)

@southernmomma2be, seems really weird that he wouldn't want anyone to know until he has money. When I was with my kids dad we were flat broke and living with my dad but we still told people. Seems even stranger to not want his mom to know she is going to be a grandma. Almost sounds like he is ashamed your pregnant.

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southernmomma2be

Lexi

he keep saying he want to wait till he has money saved to tell people and his mom he don't want her to know at all :@xoamac @mom13

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xoamac

AshВ ожидании первенца

Smh at him. You can't hide a baby. Lol it's gonna be noticeable pretty soon. 🤗

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amorasmom

jada cincereВ ожидании первенца

Yea I agree with @mom13 that's an excuse you should talk to him about it more so you can have a better understanding

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mom13

KimberlyМама дочки (5 лет), беременна (30 нед.)

@amorasmom, @shelbysuepippin not to sound mean but to me its an excuse, most moms wait to announce after 12 weeks but i didnt i announced as soon as i found out for both my first and this my second think maybe you two should sit down and agree on an exact time to announce i think that would help you some

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southernmomma2be

Lexi

because he says he need to get his mind together and get money @mom13 plus he's a huge momma boy she and him a tight

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mom13

KimberlyМама дочки (5 лет), беременна (30 нед.)

you need to tag people so they know you replied

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mom13

KimberlyМама дочки (5 лет), беременна (30 нед.)

why doesnt he want his family to know your pregnant is what they are asking @amorasmom @shelbysuepippin

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southernmomma2be

Lexi

what

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missing111user

missing111userМама подростка

yeah why not

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amorasmom

jada cincereВ ожидании первенца

why not

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I need a little advice. I'm barely pregnant and my boyfriends family is already telling me they have to be in the room…

I need a little advice. I'm barely pregnant and my boyfriends family is already telling me they have to be in the room while I push. His grandma told me that it doesn't matter what I want because its her great grandbaby. I was not raised like his family. I was raised to have a choice and not let people dictate how things go. I get that they want to be there but I dont get why I have to completely throw out what I want. I don't want a lot of people in the room watching my in pain while I push. Is that really so wrong?

I think I'm finally done trying and done caring for my boyfriend and I don't know how to take it ? 🤔 Do I stay and make…

I think I'm finally done trying and done caring for my boyfriend and I don't know how to take it ? 🤔 Do I stay and make it work for my family ? And stay unhappy? Or do I leave and make the best of it ? 🤔🤐 I still love him ( I think) I do care but I'm not sure if I care about us . Idk he and this relationship doesn't seem to be what I want . I want to be treated like a queen , want to be with someone who puts my feelings and needs first like I do his . I want someone who wants better for themselves and their family ... I just feel like I have a child that's gonna be here soon and don't have time for the bs . I have one baby not two . He needs to grow up .

So I’m not a fan of my fiancé’s family. I want you all opinion on what you would do. His family wants to throw me a baby…

So I’m not a fan of my fiancé’s family. I want you all opinion on what you would do. His family wants to throw me a baby shower. Yet they haven’t invited any of my family and friends and none of my fiancé’s friends. My fiancé and his niece haven’t spoke since May since I got into an argument with her and supposedly this baby shower is her idea. Would you go to a baby shower that no one you know or friends and family won’t be apart of? Would you just not show up? My fiancé has already voiced his concerns and they were ignored. I’m thinking about not even going.

Alright I would appreciate some input on a matter ladies.

Alright I would appreciate some input on a matter ladies. Issue: I don't want anyone at the hospital when I'm laboring nor when I'm done giving birth. I want my oldest at my house around her things as she gets EXTREMELY nervous, agitated, emotional when I'm sick. So for her emotional/mental health it's best if she stays home; which her therapist has agreed. When I've been discharged I don't want any family around other than my husband and daughter until I'm ready for that and I've docs "a-okay." This includes my side. Husband wants family at the hospital, during all that's described above, wants our daughter at someone else's house where she's told him she's not comfortable, and then wants family, particularly his, at our house after mere moments of arriving home.