IF WHEN I HAVE MY BABY I DONT WANT MY BD OR HIS FAMILY TO EVER C HER WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO???
I need a little advice. I'm barely pregnant and my boyfriends family is already telling me they have to be in the room while I push. His grandma told me that it doesn't matter what I want because its her great grandbaby. I was not raised like his family. I was raised to have a choice and not let people dictate how things go. I get that they want to be there but I dont get why I have to completely throw out what I want. I don't want a lot of people in the room watching my in pain while I push. Is that really so wrong?
I think I'm finally done trying and done caring for my boyfriend and I don't know how to take it ? 🤔 Do I stay and make it work for my family ? And stay unhappy? Or do I leave and make the best of it ? 🤔🤐 I still love him ( I think) I do care but I'm not sure if I care about us . Idk he and this relationship doesn't seem to be what I want . I want to be treated like a queen , want to be with someone who puts my feelings and needs first like I do his . I want someone who wants better for themselves and their family ... I just feel like I have a child that's gonna be here soon and don't have time for the bs . I have one baby not two . He needs to grow up .
So I’m not a fan of my fiancé’s family. I want you all opinion on what you would do. His family wants to throw me a baby shower. Yet they haven’t invited any of my family and friends and none of my fiancé’s friends. My fiancé and his niece haven’t spoke since May since I got into an argument with her and supposedly this baby shower is her idea. Would you go to a baby shower that no one you know or friends and family won’t be apart of? Would you just not show up? My fiancé has already voiced his concerns and they were ignored. I’m thinking about not even going.
Alright I would appreciate some input on a matter ladies. Issue: I don't want anyone at the hospital when I'm laboring nor when I'm done giving birth. I want my oldest at my house around her things as she gets EXTREMELY nervous, agitated, emotional when I'm sick. So for her emotional/mental health it's best if she stays home; which her therapist has agreed. When I've been discharged I don't want any family around other than my husband and daughter until I'm ready for that and I've docs "a-okay." This includes my side. Husband wants family at the hospital, during all that's described above, wants our daughter at someone else's house where she's told him she's not comfortable, and then wants family, particularly his, at our house after mere moments of arriving home.
Kimberly·Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
I really dont think a lot of "men" grow up mine still acts like a child as well and we are having our second but we have been trying for our second for 3 yrs now our 1st is 5yr old girl we are now expecting our first son and want 2 more
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