I really wanna move. We just need to find my fiancé a good job. He wants a warehouse job. I would seriously move anywhere if he could just find a good job. 😫
Why can't other mom's just be there for other mom's and work together and help each other not bash other mom's because when other mom's bash other mom's it makes us feel like we aren't doing a good job at least that's how I feel when I get bashed.
*UPDATE* bad pictures I know but I couldn't get any good ones because he kept moving.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Mamas I really need some advice or just a listening ear, I really don't know what to do, or if I'm overreacting, but my baby's father and I are together, when we met and I got pregnant he was here working, he went back to work out of town after I found out I was pregnant and only comes back once a month, he supports me financially, which was mostly his choice bc he makes good money, we are doing fine on money.. but I'm almost 31 weeks and as I get closer I'm really worried about raising my daughter on my own, he plans to continue to come back only once a month even when she is born and it really scares me, even though I know we will need the money since I won't be working, I still feel like I'm going to be alone raising our daughter, when we talk about it all he has to say is he doesn't see any other way, but he's never lived here, let alone had a job here, and I know of so many places where he could get a job easily when he's here for one of his monthly visits and he just keeps saying that he can't quit his job and move here without having a stable job, and I keep telling him he can,find a job before he quits this one, but yet he's not even trying to find a job when he's here, he hasnt researched job openings or called anywhere, sometimes I feel like he's just comfortable with what is happening and it really hurts me to think about my daughter not having him here, and raising her alone, for one he's never been around a baby, doesnt have a clue how to raise one, and has never even HELD a baby, so I feel like if he only comes back once a month then he's never going to learn how to help with her, let alone know her, and her recognize him when he is here... every time we talk about it, it just turns into an argument and I'm to the point where I feel like I'm wasting my breathe... I just really don't know what to do, I'm scared, and need help and I feel like he doesn't wanna risk anything by moving here when I really need him. am I overreacting??? btw don't get me wrong, I'm beyond grateful for him, with everything he does, and all the financial support he provides, but I've never been "taken care of" (for lack of better words) and I would rather work too, just to have him here to help me and be with his daughter and sometimes I feel like that's not an option to him... it's really depressing me and scaring me. don't be afraid to tell me if I sound like a spoiled bitch or something, I honestly need yalls HONEST OPINION. 😞
kaytlynne·
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no problem!!!!
Maddy·
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Lol true thank you for all the help I really appreciate it!! @kaytlynnehoffman
kaytlynne·
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He could always call and ask lol just to make sure
Maddy·
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Bc they have all these weird names for job but won't describe what they are 😤 @kaytlynnehoffman
kaytlynne·
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I think he's a selector. I'm not sure the actual names for the positions. he did apply online though
Maddy·
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If you don't mind me asking my fiancé is trying to apply online and the positions are confusing what position is your husband ? Or did he apply in person @kaytlynnehoffman
kaytlynne·
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I think so! they're always hiring lol
Maddy·
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Okay thank you so much I'm going to look into it! Do you know if they are hiring right now ? @kaytlynnehoffman
kaytlynne·
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yeah, and you can do overtime on days off if needed, you don't have to sign up or anything, it's in carlisle
Maddy·
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@kaytlynnehoffman,
Maddy·
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Really ? He likes it ? N is that in Harrisburg ?
kaytlynne·
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check out Giant distribution! my husband works there...they start you at 14.50 an hour and you get raises.
Maddy·
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Thank you. N I know it's just finding good ones that pay good. But that's where we are looking to move !! I hope @kaytlynnehoffman
kaytlynne·
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Idk where in pa you want to move, but Carlisle has a ton of warehouses always hiring!