I'm so sick of people harassing me about being pregnant by a black man . race doesn't determine how someone will be as a man or father . & what joy you get out of degrading and harassing a pregnant woman? I don't have time or patience for that
-.- racism that's what. so stupid. tell him your mixed and get out your face.@xomermaid,
@callumsmommy, exactly and oh yeah my dad was like that and it messed me and my brother up for a long time . this guy seriously made a new profile cause I blocked him so he could message me 20 more times 😩 fuck is wrong with people
yeah I was born in 96 so they haven't changed much, just make sure yalls little one knows how important he or she is to yall bc boyyyyy can kids get mean my mom and dad never did that but my grandparents did@xomermaid
these are only 2 people I responded to , because they have mutual friends with me and know my friends or family. I don't respond to everyone. because if these were the only 2 people that sent me messages like this I wouldn't be having such a big deal . Its just annoying because these 2 I posted about repeatedly messaged me the same texts because I wasn't answering so I went ahead and replied and blocked them . I'm not having conversations with them . it irritates them more when they can't reply to something I said lol .
you do know, you don't need to respond. I personally find it ridiculous that you're talking to all the random dudes. but that's just me. who gives a fuck what they think or say? you're playing into it, fuck them. they are irrelevant.
@callumsmommy, exactly , my mom dated black men too and they never got harassed but she definetly did and mind you this was in the 70-80s
@jessica408, Sorry but it just sounds ridiculous that you said to not put my business out there when I don't . its the fact that they see a picture of me and my boyfriend on Facebook, twitter , etc . and go at it . "hiding" the fact that I'm with a black man so that people don't harass me makes me just as bad as them. @thehowtohippie It'll forever be around, I'm just glad its not as horrible as it was .
that's what happened to my mom too, I'm black and white, they were mean to her but praised him.
@jessica408, What do you mean? I have to hide my boyfriend from the world and can't take pictures with him or maternity pictures cause he's black and some people don't like it ? @thehowtohippie that's exactly what I try to explain to people , thank you I'm glad I'm not the only one with that thought process haha!
Race plays no part in love. All that matters is how you two feel about each other and the life you're bringing into this world. If he was white, purple, blue, or black and left you and had no contact with his child his race wouldn't make him any better or worse IMO. It's how he's treating his family that determines that
My daughter is half Salvadoran and I don't have a relationship with more than half my family now because I had a spic baby lol I just laugh now Cuz losing them was hardly a loss !