@no3lastone4me, I'm gonna have to do that I'm so tired of it! I've been helping raise her since she was 10 months old!! but if I say anything I'm a bitch or being too hard. He wants to leave her with me to go do things but from now on I'll make sure she goes with him

I wouldn't either. I would refuse to keep her at any point in time, tell him if he can't discipline her then you aren't keeping her (that's what I do, cause I'm the one that keeps them all the time) I would have a HUGE problem with that though. They feel like they shouldn't be mean to them cause they never get to see them on a regular basis like they do the ones that live at home.. I would guilt him so bad If he whipped our child and not his, everyday would be a living hell for him!!!

I tried trust me! Cursing yelling screaming but still no change @no3lastone4me his daughter is 7 he refuses to discipline her and let's her do what ever the hell she wants but our 1 year old he spanks and tries to put him in time out for 15 min at a time. I don't let that shit slide though

I did at first, then I raised hell about it, he changed the way he was acting! His excuse was "he never sees them" yeah well, not in my house!!!!