do contractions really have to be unbearable to "know" when its time? I'm not talking about BH contractions I'm talking the real deal. I feel like every woman says its a pain that you can't bare and it'll make you know when its time but I feel like sometimes women can handle pain diff or maybe the contractions really aren't that bad before labor. any input? I'm having sharp pinching pain every 30 min in my cervix but I didn't lose my plug or have my water break. idk what to do.