Well besides getting kicked out of my boyfriends place, his mom suspected that I was pregnant because my belly was…
Well besides getting kicked out of my boyfriends place, his mom suspected that I was pregnant because my belly was pointed, so they had his brother buy a test, and made me prove them that I wasn't.
But I couldn't pee, so they had me drink a bunch of water till I did..
(Which btw isn't good cuz it dilutes the hCG)
So took the test and it came out "Not Pregnant"
Yea his mom was relieved, and I started crying, so she asked, "Why are you crying, because you wanted to be pregnant, or because you're relieved that you're not pregnant.?"
I straight up told her, "yea I'm crying because I'm not pregnant, because yes I want a child."
Despite at the fact I'm only 18, you kno what I'm ready to be a mom, yea it's gonna be tough.. But the one thing that hurt me the most today was her yelling at me tellin me I'm trying to ruin her sons life....
How does a child ruin your life?? You had him when you were 15, and then another one 2 years later. And you wanna scold me?
There's a reason why if I was pregnant (which I still believe I am) I don't want her around them...
mareesa richie·
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does your boyfriend want you to be pregnant also? he should of stood up for u! for them to torture you like that?!
mareesa richie·
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on your other posts it says your pregnant but are u? im just confused lol. and screw his mom its your and ur bfs life
mareesa richie·
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if the test says no then your probably not and if u think so then you need to go to doctor asap. your brain can trick u into have symptoms if u think u are . i used to do it all the time then my dumb period would show! go to doc to confirm it before you get attached to something that isnt there
Emma·
yeah go to doc if you think you are
Marissa Maria Ruth Martinez·
@mareesan, I was pretty sure I was, because there is a thing called implantation bleeding, and it usually lasts longer than your period. And I experienced that. But he tried but his parents are fucking assholes to him won't let him talk, and yes he does want me to be. We've talked about it... Plenty of times.. 😔😓 it kills me, cuz I've been throwing up a lot lately, have cravings constantly, and his mom even said that my stomach is starting to point out like a baby belly...
Just everything I want is being taken away from me... 😭😭
Marissa Maria Ruth Martinez·
@billyllianna, it hurts cuz now she won't let me see or talk to him.... Last thing he said to me was "if you love me you'll let my brother give you a ride home."
I said "fine", but at the last minute I just walked off, on my way home.. It hurt me, they hurt me.. I needed to be alone and think.
So she called my mom and told her everything, and then my mom told my stepdad and he came and got me..
olson0305·
As much as you want a baby, you don't want to bring a baby into a situation like that!! Not judging, just saying it can be a lot of unwanted drama...I was engaged with my first 2 kids and it didn't end well, and I ended up involved in drama with his family. I'd honestly advise any young lady to wait until it's a good setting for a baby.
Marissa Maria Ruth Martinez·
@olson0305, I honestly didn't think it would turn out like this..
olson0305·
I didn't either when it happened to me. :( I hope it does work out for you though!!
missing268user·
I'm not agreeing with her at all becasue I think she is wrong. but teen moms want better for their kids, and yes sometimes getting pregnant at a young age makes things harder. that's what she meant in a nicer way. my mom acted the same, becasue she was 15 and 17 when she had her kids I'm sure she wants them to wait. I know just because I am pregnant at 19, I don't expect my son or future children to be trying or do it accidentally their father and i want them to go to college but we wouldn't put them down if that's the life they chose, eliminate your self from the equation for a little bit a baby doesn't need to be Involved in that good way to get the state involved@whiteowlmamma
noelle·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)
implantation bleeding actually only happens to a very small percentage of women and it's not like period blood. I never had it. and girl screw his mother. my mother in law hated me until recently and my hubby and I still got married moved away and started a life togetger. you're an adult and you need to let her know that. I'm sorry this happened to you
noelle·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)
and I just turned 19
Marissa Maria Ruth Martinez·
@nebanks1226, it really hurts. My parents wanna be grandparents, and there's a possibility that I can't even have kids..
noelle·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)
why wouldn't you be able to if you don't mind me asking? and I know it hurts but if they are going to disrespect you like that you need to get out.
Marissa Maria Ruth Martinez·
@nebanks1226, because of the Ovarian Cysts I've had.. Ovarian cysts and endometriosis can cause infertility..
noelle·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)
I had ovarian cyst when I was younger girl and yes they suck but they eventually go away! I'm now 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant so never give up
mareesa richie·
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go to the doctor girl!! and implatation bleeding is shorter then a period not longer. only a day or maybe two i experienced it. i would buy ovulation tests take prenatals go to the doc say i have been trying for a baby can you help me they will. i wss trying for 2 years and i finally went to the doc got on bc to regulate my self and bam got pregnant the same month my last pack ended! how long have u been ttc? it could take up to a year some can have sex one time some it takes a few cycles if ur stressing that can cause it not to happen. bloating cravings etc could be pms symptoms i had those when i would start my period. even get nauseous like i am now while pregnant. pms and pregnancy symptoms can almost be the same the only difference is that pregnancy test showing the difference and the baby growing lol. deff go to the doc. if u have been trying for not even a year dont worry it will happen leave it to god pray pray pray! once that year comes go to the doc!!! :) babydust
mareesa richie·
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i just turned 20. we are all teenage moms. dont worry what other people think of u. if u want this then go for it but remember its FOREVER. no take backs. a baby is a blessing. never take it granteed take care of ur body and ur feelings:) goodluck to u!
mareesa richie·
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my implation bleeding lasted for half a day and yes it did feel like a period but light with cramps so i mistaked it for my period coming got a tattoo that day lol. but turned out it was implatation bleeding . i saw my little baby two weeks later moving and strong heart beat!! kind of worries me now that i look back but i saw that heart beat and baby so its okay now!
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I have endometriosis and yes it suck getting pregnant in some case but it is possible you just have to talk to your doctor I had surgery a year and a half ago I recovered from surgery I went on depo to get my body back to regular for 6 months than didn't take anything for 6 months than had us try on our own for 6 months than gave us clomid I took clomid for 2 months at 50 mg both times and I am now almost 12 weeks pregnant your biggest thing is you can't stress about it I was like you I didn't think I could ever get pregnant I went into complete depression but my doctor and husband helped me threw it and the one month I stayed relaxed and didn't stress over it i told my husband not to bring it up and start getting excited about it and stressing me out is the month I got pregnant you just have to stay relaxed and not stress it is possible