Being a teenage mother has made me feel like I'm not allowed to be happy and excited about my baby. From the moment I knew about her I have been beyond in love, but I've felt like I have to keep it to myself. I wish I could have fully enjoyed my pregnancy despite my young age because my little girl is such a blessing.
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You shouldn't! Giving life is the best feeling ever despite your age! Girl you shouldn't give a damn about those judgmental hypocrites ... Enjoy your pregnancy baby girl!!!!
Young or Old a baby is a blessing, Enjoy it! 😊 Others will always be judgmental unfortunately but they aren't in your shoes, living your life.- I have my First in less than 10 days and I'm 19; however I've seen my pregnancy as not only a blessing but just more motivation for me to accomplish my goals even more!
I am 20 and was ultimately feeling the same thing. I felt guilty for being happy, but my sister in law was in our same boat when she had her daughter 9 years ago & she told us that every baby is a blessing no matter which way they arrive & there is nothing in this world that is greater than a baby. Feel blessed mama! You have every reason to smile & be happy ❤️
I'm also a teenage mom and feel like that all the time so I know exactly how you feel I just try to block out all the negativity and focus on my baby
I was a young mom and I know what you mean I felt like in shouldn't be happy because I was young and not married and there was some married, college graduate with a white picket fence and huge diamond ring that might have been more deserving of this gift God had given me,then I realized the hell with what everyone thought they would have had something to say regardless and my God doesn't make mistakes so myb child deserved me and I deserved this baby as much as the married women with the degree and fairytale life. my daughter is 11 I raised her alone until last year. I'm able to be fortunate enough to send her to private a child school, she's smart funny and I am more than. blessed to be her mom, I wish I enjoyed the little things more like baby snuggles and warm hugs from a sleepy toddler. all I will tell u is never let anyone steal your joy.... NO ONE... This pregnancy, my fiancé has been going through a lot of difficulties and I almost allowed him to ruin this blessing for me and again found myself feeling unworthy then I realized the same thing yet again. I AM BLESSED I have yet another chance and warm snuggles from a sleepy toddler and even though I know this time around sleep I'm sure will be a luxury I will cherish the times my son wake me because he knows I bring him comfort. enjoy every moment and milestone you're worthy of enjoying your baby you're blessed and so very fortunate and your baby is super lucky to have a mommy who would care enough to even worry about these things ♡♡♡♡
Don't let others bring you down. Enjoy your pregnancy and be the best mother you can be. There's a lot of people that give me negative looks and talk poorly about me because I'm only 19. But me and my husband will prove them wrong and show them we can accomplish our goals and raise our little girl. Keep your head up. :)
Keep your head up girly it will be ok. Enjoy the last few weeks of her bring in your belly. Don't let the negative get to you.
I'm 16 and pregnant , and feel the exact same way. But it'll be okay!
@mrsruvalcaba, Thank you, I plan to do just that and prove everyone wrong. :)
I know exactly where your coming from. I was pregnant @ 15 with my first and my father especially made me feel that way but it doesn't matter what ppl think or say just keep your head up and be the best mom you can possibly be for your baby.
@mimiz, of course I plan to be the best mother possible for my baby. @azurisantez715 It's difficult to look past the negativity when it's from my family, but it doesn't affect how I feel about my daughter so I think that's what matters. I'm just upset with myself for not enjoying the experience of carrying her because my family doesn't approve I guess
Don't let people have that kind of power over you. Be excited!
You should never feel that way... I had my first baby at 15
Doesn't matter your age be the best mom you can be and don't worry about anyone
Be happy! People probably just want the best for you, but no baby is a mistake, they're all blessings. I was 25 with my first and not married- my older sister was pregnant and married...my family said very little when I said I was pg but was over the moon for my sister. So I kinda know what you're feeling. :( it hurts but your baby IS a blessing.