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Melissa

yesterday a lady scared me because she said I'm doing way too much moving around after having a baby. is there honestly…

yesterday a lady scared me because she said I'm doing way too much moving around after having a baby. is there honestly serious things that can go wrong with me? other than little things I feel fine. not working out or running but I am moving from my old house to my new house (with help from my husband of course), climbing lifting things. i have been doing this since about 5 days postpartum. I had an episiotomy, vacuum, and forceps. no complications other than that really. help?

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melissarose

Melissa

thanks 😉😊😊

mommybre14

Breanna

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (3 нед.)

your welcome @melissarose and thank you, I'd hate to have anyone else have that happen to them. Stay safe, your baby needs you

melissarose

Melissa

damn! sorry to curse but that's pretty scary! I know about hemorrhaging. I guess it's just one of those things where you think it could never happen to you. glad you're doing better. I feel like it's been about 3 weeks and n things happened yet idk maybe I just need to stop being naive and trying to be super mom. thanks @mommybre14

mommybre14

Breanna

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (3 нед.)

You could hemorrhage really bad and you wouldn't be near your Dr or anything to stop it there fore bleed out and die from blood loss. I had a really bad experience with it because like you I was moving and I just started bleeding like I I was having a miscarriage but I already had the baby. Was in the er for a week.

oxchanty

chantelle baez

I had a c-seccion and move 10 days after birth and everything was fine

melissarose

Melissa

I just wish I knew what could go wrong it's been about 3 weeks now and I truly feel okay. I'll be able to relax in about 3 days. thank you for commenting back though.

mommastone

Kristina

Мама сына-младенца

I think that is too much. You needed to rest for a couple of weeks literally. You can go shopping or whatever but to be safe I wouldn't be moving anything. You may feel fine but it doesn't mean you won't hurt yourself. I had a c section so I know that's different but your not even a week and should be resting.

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