A grooming kit??? Nail clippers, bathing products and stuff like that, Gas relief drops, you'll need a diaper bag. Blankets, especially since you live in ME & its probably freezing there.

I'm going through the same. Looks like no baby shower for me either. Hope I don't forget as well

Thank you! Great advice! @_akgirl

i loved our swing and our rock n play. granted both aren't necessary, we borrowed from family. maybe a baby carrier? so baby can still be closer and you can be hands free.